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'Intimacy' Device Lets Long-Distance Lovers Express Affection With Light


Cell phones and computers have made it much easier for long-distance lovers to remain romantic. However, text messages and e-mails lack that intimate touch. While it's still not quite the same as being there, a new device from Distance Lab aims to keep that flame burning strong in long-distance relationships.

BBC News reports that the Mutsugoto, which has been in development for nearly two years, will be tested this weekend by a couple in Edinburgh and London. Here's how this weird device works. Each person wears a touch-activated ring. When the person living in Edinburgh, for instance, moves his or her hand, a camera detects the movement and transmits signals to a mechanism that displays a beam of light on the person living in London. Essentially, the system enables you to draw on your significant other's body with beams of light. The device is meant for use in a private place like a bedroom, which would lend a different level of intimacy than, for instance, using a cell phone in public.

This is definitely one of the more bizarre devices to have come along lately. It just doesn't make much sense. How exactly does a beam of light represent an 'intimate' connection? It seems like Web cams or even a phone call would prove more intimate. After all, what happened to using words to express how you feel? [From: BBC News and Distance Lab]

Editor's Picks, Reviews

17 Niche Dating Sites for Specialty Lovers



There's somebody out there for everyone. And thanks to the Web, they are easier to find than ever. Today, online dating sites cater to any interest, vocation, hobby, fetish, and even shared disease. If you're single and very particular -- or you just want to peak at some of the weirder matchmaking services -- then check out our roundup of these unique dating sites.

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Computers

Sappy E-Mails Between SC Governor and Mistress Published by Paper

Politicians, more than any other occupation, should definitely know by now that private, naughty e-mails and photographs will inevitably not remain private. South Carolina newspaper The State published e-mails this week that are believed to be correspondences between South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford and his South American mistress. The messages, which date from July of 2008, describe the forbidden love between Sanford and Maria, an unidentified Argentinian woman.

The messages get disgustingly sappy at times ("my heart cries for you, your voice, your body, the touch of your lips," and so on) and sometimes just weird (as when Sanford describes working on his farm and the wonder of "listening to country music playing in the cab, air conditioner running, the hum of a huge diesel engine in the background"). Sounds romantic. The offerings get ironic at times, too, best illustrated by one particular 1,300-word manifesto in which the married governor frequently cites Bible verses.

While stories about the infidelity of politicians are not surprising anymore, the circumstances surrounding the breaking of this story are somewhat shocking. The State uncovered the e-mails in December. In this era of 'First!' journalism, with little respect for fact verification, we can't believe a major newspaper actually waited for months before running such a scandalous story. [From: The State, via The Daily Beast]

Web

Man Hires Someone on Craigslist to Rape His Wife


Craigslist just keeps taking one hit after another. There has been, of course, the "Craigslist Killer," and the Illinois sheriff sued the site, alleging it promotes and facilitates prostitution. And who could forget that Connecticut's attorney general recently sent a letter to Craigslist CEO Jim Buckmaster, requesting the erotic services section be removed from the site?

As if all that negative publicity weren't enough, ABC News reports that a North Carolina man has been charged with hiring a man via Craigslist to rape his wife. The woman called 911 on Sunday, telling police that a man wielding a knife had raped her in her bedroom. After a preliminary investigation that did not yield signs of a break-in, police suspected that the husband could have played some role in the crime. Allegedly, he had watched while the brutal scene unfolded.

The husband, whose name has not been released so as to protect the victim, has been charged with first-degree rape, two counts of first-degree sexual offense, and one count of attempted first-degree sexual offense. He has been jailed with a $200,000 bond. In ABC's piece, no mention was made of the man with the knife.

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Couple to Wed in Zero Gravity Environment


A New York couple will soon take the term "destination wedding" to another level. On June 20th, New York couple Noah Fulmor and Erin Finnegan will marry 36,000 feet in the air aboard a Boeing 727 that simulates weightlessness, according to the Telegraph.

The flight will depart from Kennedy Space Center in Florida. Richard Garriott, a space tourist and son of an astronaut, will preside over the ceremony, which will take place as the aircraft repeatedly dives from 36,000 to 24,000 feet and climbs back up, creating a zero-gravity environment. Friends and family brave enough to attend the ceremony must pay more than $5,000 out of their own pocket, according to Lemondrop. If you ask us, their stomachs and wallets would be better served if they just waited for pictures and videos from the ceremony.

This wedding is certainly unique, albeit a little nerdy. The Telegraph reports that the couple met at a science fiction convention, and Fulmor will give his bride a ring made from meteorite fragments at the June 20th ceremony. This couple has definitely set a high bar for future nerd weddings. [From: the Telegraph, via Lemondrop]

Cameras, Web, Social Networking

Trans-Atlantic Couple Bridges Gap With Flickr and Photoshop



Welcome to the 21st century, where love knows no limits -- thanks to photo-sharing Web sites, that is. According to a profile in the Telegraph, aspiring British photographer Rosie Hardy met North Carolinian Aaron Nance, her professional photo retoucher boyfriend, through Flickr, where both participated in the Flickr 365 Days project.

Piquing each other's interest via the shared photo pool, they independently messaged each other about their similar styles -- allegedly on the same day. Romance wasn't far behind, and she snapped photos and he used his post production capability as a jumping off point, inspiring the two to start Photoshopping themselves as a couple, despite the ocean between them.

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Cell Phones, Web

Facebook, Twitter -- Are They Messing With Our Love Lives?


While we aren't exactly old-timers here at Switched, we all vividly remember those revved-up heartbeats that inevitably preceded the first time we dialed those seven digits that we'd miraculously gotten from a cute acquaintance. We remember, too, the disappointment of an answering machine and the nervous wait for a returned call. As the years have passed, though, we've taken -- sometimes begrudgingly -- to new, different and more immediate forms of telecommunicative courtship, from instant messaging to text messaging.

For some, according to a recent article in the Washington Post, these advancements have resulted in more frustrations than they have infatuations. With a number of anecdotes from as many contemporary daters, the article pieces together a vision of the current, tech-savvy dating scene. One man opines over his partner's being without a cell phone. A woman bemoans a former flame's aversion to texting, and then rolls her eyes over another's obsession with Twitter. The article speculates that, while these myriad forms of communication might present the dating population with frustrations, it's just as likely that those tech-related impasses are just indications of deeper problems. Maybe a couple's technological incompatibility is representative of a general failure to effectively communicate, the article suggests.

For our part, we think that, if a relationship is meant to flower, it will do so with the requisite hard work and sacrifice. That was the case in the days of the horse-and-buggy, and it's the case in the days of Twitter-and-text, too. [From: Washington Post]

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Couple's Cell Phone Argument Descends to Rock Throwing

Cell Phone Argument Descends to Rock Throwing
We know that people can get pretty heated up about their cell phones. Users of Apple's iPhone, in particular, have a tendency to get a little defensive if someone slights their choice of handset. But, apparently, that's not what led to a man and a woman throwing rocks at each other in a dispute that centered on a missing mobile.

A disturbance was reported at a Cleveland, Ohio area Days Inn back on April 12th. Apparently, around 11:00 in the morning, a man and a woman were yelling and screaming and making quite a fuss. That quickly degraded into the two throwing rocks at each other, forcing police police to break it up. The cause for the argument? The woman accused the man of having her cell phone. He said he didn't, and, before long, the rocks were flying. Ultimately, the woman was sent on down the street, seemingly still missing her phone.

Sadly, the report does not indicate which make and model it was -- but we have our suspicions. [From: Lakewood Sun Post]

Cell Phones

Saudi Man Divorces Wife via Text Message

According to the Arab News, a Saudi man, who was busy in Iraq participating in "what he described as 'jihad'," found the time to send his wife a text message, alerting her that he had divorced her. This is the first documented divorce in Saudi Arabia executed by text message, according to a Reuters report at Yahoo! News. Under Islamic Sharia Law, a man need only say "I divorce you" three times to end a relationship.

Before finalizing the split, a court in Jeddah (a city near the Red Sea) summoned two relatives who had received telephone calls from the man confirming his wish. After their appearance, the court acted to dissolve the marriage.

We think it's a tad crass to end a marriage via text. But then again, if the man is in Iraq doing what we think he's doing (attacking U.S. and Iraqi security forces),then an etiquette faux pas probably doesn't bother him all that much. [From: Reuters Via: IT World]

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Study: Most Brit Blokes Want Game Night, Not Girl Night

Let us start off by saying that we're taking this report with a grain of salt, seeing as www.PS3pricecompare.co.uk isn't exactly renowned as a beacon of outstanding research. Going off a recent survey, the console price comparison site is claiming that 72-percent of British men would choose a night of playing video games over a night with their girlfriends.

Even more disturbing, 32-percent of the 1,130 men who were surveyed said that they generally preferred playing video games to spending time with their significant others. Some respondents even said that their girlfriends were "not as much fun" as video games.

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Not as much fun, huh? Clearly, these blokes are doing something wrong. [Via: Pocket Lint]


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Celebrities, Web

Aniston Dumped Mayer Due to His 'Twitter Obsession'



Oh Twitter, is there anything you can't ruin? Once, you were just a fun diversion for social-networking addicts who needed another way to stay connected with their virtual friends. But, before long, you were invalidating court cases, ruining job offers, and generally making a mess of things. Now, you've gone and ruined a perfect Hollywood couple. According to Star, supposed friends of the Jennifer Aniston say that the sultry ex-Friend allegedly broken up with musician John Mayer over his so-called "Twitter obsession."

Do you use Twitter regularly?



Per the unnamed sources, Mayer constantly told Aniston that he was too busy to see her, but somehow still found the time to regularly update his Twitter page. When she called him out on it, he made no excuses and she ended it right there.

So, if you're a Twitter user, beware; that site will surely ruin your life before long. [Via: Telegraph.co.uk]


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Car Tech, Cell Phones

Jilted Spouses Turn to Technology to Keep Tabs on Partners



Hard-scrabbled, bourbon-swilling private investigators may soon go the way of newspapers, as in forced out of business by advances in technology. With GPS tracking software and other monitoring devices readily available and increasingly affordable, a growing number of people are doing the dirty work themselves. Therefore, the era of sweat-stained PIs eating burgers in rundown cars while they take pictures of cheating spouses may be drawing to a close.

The current economic downturn certainly hasn't diminished the number of wayward wives and adulterous husbands, and do-it-yourself surveillance companies are happy to cater to the paranoid. George Karonis, president of LiveViewGPS told ABC News, "Even in this economy our business continues to grow," pointing out that 40-percent of his customer base uses his services to monitor family members or their automobiles. Another owner, Jeffrey Jurist of SpyAssociates.com, said, "Greed, lust and fear are the three high growth industries and this covers all three."

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Cameras, Computers

Why You Should Always Empty Your Computer's Trash Bin

Here's a tip: If you are going to rat someone out to the cops, make sure the cops don't end up busting you instead.

The Smoking Gun reports that Michelle Owen, a 24 year-old Indiana woman, suspected that her ex-boyfriend had used her computer to look up child pornography. Embroiled in a custody dispute with the man and concerned by the criminal nature of such searches, Owen requested that police search the laptop for illegal content, which, in hindsight, might have been a mistake.

While searching the computer, detectives found no evidence of child pornography, but instead found video files containing footage of Owen performing illicit acts with a dog. In case you were wondering, the dog is believed to be a beagle named Toby. Owen has been charged with two felony bestiality counts despite her explaining to police in their official report that the incident was "just something she did while she was drunk and barely remembers it."

Sorry honey, next time you might want to empty your computer's recycle bin. May we also suggest that you stop drinking immediately? [From: the smoking gun]

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10 Habits of Highly Annoying Geek Couples




Thanks to a heads-up from the good people over at geeksugar, we've come across an interesting list relating to marital bliss: Wired's own Geekdad has compiled the 10 Annoying Habits of a Geeky Spouse, and if we weren't so painfully cool, or didn't spend so much time memorizing everything Homer Simpson has ever said, we might see a few of these reflected in our own relationship. Throwing in 'Simpsons' references whenever possible makes us cool, right? We think so, but our spouse won't give us a straight answer.

Is your spouse or significant other a geek?



Anyhoo, the list seems pretty dead-on, although we do have some small issues with a few of the habits on the list -- Both the Wired crew and Geekdad admit to using "frak" instead of actually cursing, but they attribute the origin to 'Battlestar Galactica.' Sure the original version used "frack" but not with the same spelling or frequency, and every true geek remembers playing the game 'Frak!' on their Commodore 64 (ownership of which immediately classifies one as a geek of the highest order).

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Cell Phones, Computers, BlackBerry

Australian Private Investigators Offer Illegal Spouse-Tracking Services



Australians worried about cheating spouses also need to be wary of private investigators and Web sites trying to take advantage of their vulnerability. Numerous private investigation firms in Australia are now offering services which include mobile phone monitoring. There's only one problem. It's illegal.

According to the Australian Surveillance Devices Act, private investigators have to obtain their targets' consent in order to track them. Otherwise, they're subject to two years in jail and a $25,000 fine. Since the firms typically offer software that the client uses to personally track his or her spouse, the companies actually forgo liability and the clients assume it. One such company, 'Spousebusters,' provides software compatible with Series 60 (Nokia, LG and Samsung), BlackBerry and Windows devices. Not to be left out of the loop, scam artists are now using the offers as lures to phish for people's cell phone numbers and private information.

In a talk with The Age, Christopher Zinn of the Australian Consumers' Association offered this to people who consider using GPS software to keep tabs on their partner: "It seems to be an abuse of technology which is rightly used in terms of tracking children or older people, not for cheating partners." He continued, "One would suggest that if you had suspicions about your partner, mobile phone tracking services might not be the place to go." What happened to P.I.'s actually getting out and doing a little leg work? Philip Marlowe would be ashamed. [From: Textually.org]

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