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Parents Worried Girls Becoming Addicted to Facebook

On top of all the natural insecurities and volatile emotions that characterize adolescence, you can now add the girlish gossip-mongering of the Facebook age, where high school dating drama follows gals home and the family laptop becomes the central location of anxiety, woe, and "Oh no, she di-int." Granted, they may just want to have fun, but growing girls don't always have an easy time of it.

To add to the worry, the BBC reports that parents of teenage girls in the U.K. now cite addiction to online social networking as their number one concern. As Jill Berry, the president of the Girls' School Association, puts it, girls are now apparently "permanently connected" to sites like Facebook and Bebo, and parents are worried. At the association's annual conference, Berry detailed parents' concerns over "what to do about their daughters being on the receiving end of 'We hate x' sites or 'honesty boxes' where comments about each other can be posted anonymously."

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Google, Web

Google Search Reunites Dad With Daughter After 30 Years


Googling yourself can be daunting. Some people are morbidly afraid of what they might find, and others fear disappointment with what they don't find. But every now and then, self-googling can return the kind of life-changing results you never thought possible.

In a story that is pretty much destined to be made into a movie (albeit a Lifetime one), according to the Huffington Post, a Georgia woman recently reunited with her father after more than 30 years of separation. The catalyst behind the event, of course, was Google. April Becker-Antoniou googled her own name and, while sifting through the search results, came across a site that her father, Dr. Scott Becker, had set up nearly 10 years prior in the hopes that she might one day stumble across it. Titled "Scott Becker looking for April," the Web site reads: "Dear April, When you read this, please send an email to: april@aprilbecker.com. I'm your dad and I would really like to talk to ya. When I get your email, I will ask you a couple of questions that only you would know so I can filter out the crazies out there. By the way, You have a lil sister that REALLY wants to talk to you :-) Dad Scott Robert Becker."

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Web

Parents Can Read Bedtime Stories From Abroad With New Site

Growing up, there was no better way to ease into a good night of sleep than with Mom or Dad reading a bedtime story. But in today's fast-paced, mobile world, parents aren't always home to read to their children. According to Tech Flash, a new online service hopes to revitalize bedtime stories -- no matter how many miles might separate parents and kids.

For a fee of $6.99, 'A Story Before Bed' allows parents to record a video of themselves reading a story from the site's extensive library (from 'The Itsy Bitsy Spider' to 'Hansel and Gretel'), and then syncs the video with a digital version of the book onscreen. All you need is a computer, a webcam, and a copy of Adobe's Flash Player. Then, the child (presumably with help from an adult) can log on to the site and have a story read to him or her. It's the perfect way for that grandmother who lives on the West Coast or that dad who's overseas on business to stay in touch with the youngsters. Don't worry that you're too old to figure this out, either. The site's developers, Jackson Fish Market, even offer technical support between 1 p.m. and 10 p.m. Pacific Time.

It's not as good as reading 'Where The Wild Things Are' while sitting on the edge of your child's bed, but it's a lot better than the alternative for traveling parents. Now, if you'll excuse us, we have some reading to do. [From: Tech Flash, via Kotkke, via A Story Before Bed]

Web

Woman to Stream Her Child's Birth Live on the Web

For some women, giving birth is an intimate experience. But for a 23-year-old Minneapolis mom-to-be, it's a chance to teach and share with the world -- live on the Internet. According to Boston.com, a woman named Lynsee was approached by Moms Like Me, a site that lets women blog about their pregnancies, and asked about filming the birth of her first child and streaming it on the Web. After conferring with her husband, Lynsee, who is a family and consumer science teacher, decided the project would not only be a chance to share her experience with moms all over the world, but also that the footage would make a fine keepsake for her kid. (In case you're wondering, the camera crew has been instructed to keep things clean and tasteful).

If you're interested in watching this "magical" experience, Lynsee's due date is November 19th. The streaming video is available to anybody who visits the Moms Like Me site, but only registered members will be able to post comments and chat during the birth. As the day nears, Lynsee says she isn't having any regrets. "It's the one big moment and the special part and it's what I'm looking forward to sharing with everyone the most," she told Boston.com.

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Woman Accused of Posting Child's Number on Craigslist Sex Ad


Craigslist has long been home to sketchy activity. But the latest scandal involving the notoriously lawless classified ad site might just take the cake.

According to a report by WCBS in New York, Margery Tannenbaum, a Long Island social worker (seriously, a social worker), is facing charges of aggravated harassment and endangering the welfare of a child. Prosecutors claim that Tannenbaum, 40, placed an ad for sex on Craiglist, and gave the phone number of an unaware 9-year-old girl as the contact. Twisted enough, sure. But that creepiness is alleged to have been part of some convoluted revenge plot aimed at the girl, who had allegedly gotten in an argument with Tannenbaum's daughter. Eager to defend her daughter's honor, Mama Tannenbaum allegedly hit the Web, created an e-mail account under the super-creative name of "lacethong23@yahoo.com," placed a suggestive ad on Craigslist, and then gave out the girl's name and phone number upon receiving responses.

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Audio/Video

Lullabelly MP3-Player Belt Brings Tunes to the Womb


It's never too early to set off on the road to Overbearing Parenthood. But before you buy the tennis racquet, book the violin lessons, download college applications, or even order the complete 'Baby Einstein' collection, you might want to start with something even more basic, intuitive, and natural... like blasting music into your unborn baby's brain.

A new product called the Lullabelly allows expecting, (over)eager mothers to do just that by strapping an MP3 player tightly to their stomachs. Think of it as an in utero iTunes. With nothing more than the special Lullabelly belt and the requisite music player, pregnant women everywhere will now be able to create their own prenatal concert hall, undoubtedly guaranteeing that their child will, indeed, be a genius. Available in the soothing, brain-building shades of pink, green, or blue polka dot (created, presumably, with the future Liberace market in mind), the Lullabelly features volume control, a detachable speaker, and a handy little pocket to hold the player.

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Site Lets Parents Monitor Kids' School Lunches

Watch out, kids. It's about to become tougher to sneak that extra ice-cream bar during lunch. The diet of students at St John's Church of England School, in Stanmore, northwest London, is being remotely monitored by their parents. According to the Daily Mail, parents can access a Web site that tells them exactly what their children ate for lunch. When purchasing lunch, the 300 students simply swipe an identification card at a computer, which then sends information on the food they selected to a site. Parents log on to the site and can see if a child picked ice cream instead of yogurt.

School administrators say the system is a way for parents to make sure their young kids are making healthy choices while at school, not a case of Big Brother. Councilor Anjana Patel told the Daily Mail, "Parents can now have extra assurance that their children have already eaten a healthy meal during the day,"

We're just glad our elementary school didn't have this system in place. It's possible that we never would've made it through fifth-grade math without those extra chocolate milks or french fries. [From: Daily Mail]

Celebrities, Web

Mommy Blogger Turns Hate Mail Into Gold

Mommy Blogger Turns Hate Mail into Gold
We have to hand it to mommy blogger Heather Armstrong, of Dooce fame. She beat us to the punch. We've been tossing around the idea of rounding up our favorite hate-ments on Switched for some time now, but have never actually acted on it. Armstrong, who recently made it to number 26 on Forbes's list of the most influential women in media, decided to assemble the piles of hateful, nasty comments that are inevitable when writing a popular blog, post them to a single page, load it up with ads, and call it 'Monetizing the Hate.'

Opinions of the move, as with opinions of Armstrong herself, seem to exist only at the extremes of the spectrum. Either it's genius (We're firmly in that camp.), or a shameless exploitation of her readership and a plea for pity. The hate mail has apparently been pouring in at an even higher rate since the Salt Lake City mom took on MayTag via Twitter over poor customer service when her brand new washing machine broke down a week after being delivered. Armstrong was called a bully and a spoiled, whiny brat. This latest incident is apparently what prompted her to launch Monetizing the Hate.

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Cell Phones, Social Networking

Parents Now Inescapable Thanks to Text-Nagging


While cell phones and social networking provide kids with a sense of independence and maturity, that same technology also ensures that a particularly nosy and invasive group can keep a tight clamp on newly found teen cyber-freedom.

According to the Washington Post, parents are increasingly using online grading systems, Facebook, and text messaging to not only keep tabs on their kids, but, more importantly, to constantly nag their progeny into submission. Tech-savvy mother Martha McGrath told the Post that she celebrates "the plethora of nagging options," and many other parents seems to agree with the sentiment.

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Web

Move Over, Mommy. Daddy's Blog Is Now the Darling of E-Marketers.


Blogs can be substantial money-makers for enterprising mothers who are willing to describe the daily tribulations of stay-at-home parenting. According to the New York Times, blogs such as Dooce have become so successful that some writing moms have found their blogs' advertising revenue -- or outright endorsement revenue -- to be their primary sources of income.

The Times is reporting that while many companies do shill their wares via parenting blogs, they aren't just focusing on the moms anymore. Sony, specifically, is now engaged in a three-month partnership with blogging dads, "lending" the house husbands various electronic products to use with family members. The patriarchs are obligated to describe the gear to their readers, but are under no pressure to give positive write-ups. Sony spokeswoman Marcy Cohen said, "We expect the reviews to be very honest."

While that sounds good in theory, and call us jaded all you want, we have a hard time believing that a company would pay somebody to review a product without expecting a favorable review. Fortunately for our self-esteem, the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) agrees. As we've mentioned in our coverage of pay-per-tweet marketing, the FTC may soon implement guidelines requiring that paid bloggers disclose the corporate sources of their paychecks.

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Web

'Porn' a Top Search Result for Kids, Study Finds


Nobody is surprised anymore that "sex" and "porn" are always in the top ten search terms. So why is it news that kids are routinely searching out the naughty stuff online, as well?

According to Symantec, which used its OnlineFamily.Norton service to track 3.5 million kids' searches anonymously, "sex" and "porn" are respectively the fourth and sixth most popular search terms among younger browsers. "YouTube" and "Google" came in as number one and two, respectively. (Though we're not sure why you'd have to search for a search engine.) Overall, kids' search terms didn't look all that different from those of adults, with the exception of the name "Fred," a popular YouTube performer, who came in at number nine.

Marian Merritt, Symantec's Internet safety advocate, summed up our feelings pretty well when she told the BBC, "I think we have all gotten over our shock that the Internet has porn."

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Cell Phones

Teens Text Daily in Class, Study Reveals


We've seen endless studies on teens and their cell phone habits, and one conclusion can be drawn from all of the surveys. The iGeneration kids aren't going to stop texting. The most recent investigation into teen texting, conducted by Joel Benenson of Common Sense Media, revealed that teens send 25-percent of their total text messages while killing time in class. (Whatever happened to doodling and daydreaming?)

The pollsters broke the numbers down and found that students send 110 texts a week during class time, which equates to over three texts per class. The study also determined that half of all students have used their phones to either store notes they can consult during a test, or to text a friend for a test answer. Only half of all the students polled believe this phone cheating to be a "serious offense."

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Computers

Web Site Laments Parents Joining Facebook



As we've mentioned before, there is no Internet experience quite as mortifying as having your folks find you on Facebook. In fact, one ten-day-old Web site -- aptly titled 'Oh Crap. My Parents Joined Facebook.' -- is solely devoted to airing the embarrassment, we learned today from Buzzfeed. On the site, users can submit the best of the worst Facebook exchanges they've had with parents, apparently getting some kind of catharsis from doing so.

Our favorite? One uber-hip dad who exclaimed, via Facebook status:
I also [sic] great numbers for my diabetes from the doctor today too! Woot-Woot!
All this begs the question: How do you say, "When are you going to get a real job?" in leet-speak? [From: Oh Crap. My Parents Joined Facebook. via Buzzfeed]

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Computers, MySpace, Back to School

Is It Okay for Teachers to Communicate With Students Via Facebook?

Teachers Walk a Fine Line, Online
Social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace are breaking down barriers between teachers and students, and, predictably, not everyone is happy about it. While many teachers are thrilled with the connections they're able to form with students outside of the classroom on the site, they also admit there is a fine line they must walk.

A flurry of student-teacher sexual relationships has set off alarms with those who worry that Facebook and MySpace are just new places place for teachers to communicate with their students without supervision. CNN reports that legislators, teachers and parents nationwide are concerned, and a group in Missouri, specifically, is considering a bill that would make it illegal for teachers to befriend students on social networking sites.

Others, however, see the services as helpful for creating connections with struggling students who might be afraid to speak up in class or in person. Teachers are afraid to lose any weapon in their arsenal that helps them reach out to kids.

Sadly, we don't see a simple answer. The pros seem to outweigh the cons, but just barely. It is important here, as always, that parents play a role in monitoring their children's relationships with their teachers, even online. [Source: CNN]

Audio/Video, Computers, MySpace

Three in Four Parents Spy on Their Kids With Webcams

Parents Aren't Above Online Snooping
Parents are getting desperate in the battle to stay on-top of their kid's online activities. The preferred method of combat used to be occasionally sitting down at the PC with your child and/or picking up some filtering software, but that just isn't cutting it anymore.

Kids are on social-networking sites like Facebook and MySpace, even if they're under the 13-year-old age limit. Even worse, many of these kids have gotten into bad habits such as befriending complete strangers, and, according to a recent study by research firm Garlik, one in five even admit to meeting these online-only friends offline. A full two thirds of kids admit to posting personal information such as what school they attend or their home phone number on their profile.

Instead of sitting down with their children and explaining to them how to be safely use such services, parents have reduced themselves to the electronic equivalent of reading their child's diary. According to the Garlik survey, a full three quarters of parents admitted to spying on their children online. Some created fake profiles to keep tabs on their kids, while others actually log in to their child's account when they aren't around.

While it's important that parents understand the potential pitfalls of social networking services, snooping isn't going to get them anywhere. Teaching a child proper behavior and what information is safe to share is the only way to make sure they're safe even when you aren't around to break into their PC. [Source: Telegraph]

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