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Soldiers at War Finding Dates on the Web


According to USA Today, Internet dating site eHarmony is reporting that the number of military members joining its site grew by more than 50-percent between 2006 and 2008. It may not be Casablanca in the '40s, but the Web is turning into quite the place for deployed soldiers to fall in love.

These days, soldiers don't have to rely on letters anymore -- satellite phones, wireless networks, and war zone Internet cafés have allowed men and women on the front line to stay nearly as connected as they are at home. Aside from keeping up their Myspace and Facebook pages, many soldiers are giving online dating a try.

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Ellen Joins Twitter, Ponders How to Tweet Awkward Dance Moves

Ellen Joins Twitter, Ponders How to Tweet Awkward Dance Moves
So is there anyone left who isn't on Twitter? Shaq, Britney Spears, even Martha Stewart is in on the craze. So who could possibly have been left out in the cold? Turns out America's favorite non-Oprah day-time talk show host Ellen Degeneres only got on the Twitter bandwagon this week.

So what nuggets can you expect from Ellen, since Tweeting dance steps and American Express commercials is clearly out of the question? Primarily it's news about who is on the show alongside occasional behind-the-scenes glimpses like "Playing poker in my dressing room before I head over to Leno."

The most interesting thing on Ellen's Twitter feed in an image posted with TwitPic, a service that lets you share photos via Twitter. The photo is of DeGeneres and her wife, 'Better Off Dead's' Portia de Rossi, on the set of 'The Ellen Degeneres Show' playing 'The Newlywed Game.' What is surprising about the photo is right below 'The Newlywed Game' logo is the logo of another property... eHarmony.

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Dating Sites Getting Busier, Thanks to Market Drops


In the midst of the financial crisis, one line of business is reporting record revenues; increasingly, folks worried over the economy are looking for love on dating Web sites, according to Reuters.

While the Dow dropped by over four percent in the third quarter of 2008, making for a total decrease of 35-percent this year, PerfectMatch.com saw membership boom with a 47-percent increase in the third quarter. Similarly, Match.com executives report that November offered the largest membership spurt in seven years, while the folks at eHarmony.com note that, on days that the Dow drops significantly, the site's traffic increases.
"It makes a lot of sense. People seek out companionship in times of stress," eHarmony senior research scientist Gian Gonzaga told Reuters.

Experts also note that cash-strapped daters prefer to do their preliminary courtship online, avoiding the costs of meals, drinks or movies until they find suitable dates.

Although we don't have any data to back it up, we'd imagine that, with the unemployment rate being so high, you will have greater success on these sites if you claim a career with strong job-security -- like working for a dating site, for instance. [From: Reuters]

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eHarmony Creates Separate But Equal Site for Gays

eHarmony Creates Separate but Equal Site for Gays
Congratulations gay and lesbian community, you may have lost out November 4 in California, Arizona, Florida, and Arkansas, but you scored a sweet consolation prize in the New-Jersey-based lawsuit against eHarmony. Realizing that it was about to get nailed to the wall for violating anti-discrimination laws, eHarmony settled with the New Jersey Attorney General out of court.

The settlement gives $5,000 to 46-year-old Eric McKinley, who filed the original suit in 2005, $50,000 to the Attorney General's office to cover administrative costs, and requires eHarmony to launch a new personal ad site aimed at gays and lesbians. That's right, apparently it isn't a violation of anti-discrimination laws to subscribe to a "separate but equal" model.

We try and stay off our high-horse most of the time, but this is patently ridiculous. The company released a statement explaining, "we ultimately decided it was best to settle with the Attorney General since litigation outcomes can be unpredictable." Which is code for, "this is the only way we could keep the queers off our site."

eHarmony stands to actually make money from this settlement once Compatible Partners (the new gay personals site) goes live. It will offer free six month subscriptions to the first 10,000 people who sign up, but after that it's nothing but gravy for the creepily wholesome matchmaking company. [From: Digital Media Wire]

Computers, Advice, Top Lists, MySpace

Five Things To Avoid When Dating Online

Online Dating Profile
Everyone's doing it - over 40 percent of U.S. singles are finding matches online. That's more than 40 million single Americans cruising the Internet looking for love (based on census results that say there are over 100 million single Americans).

So the Internet must be a great place to find true love, right? Not so fast. While online dating can be a great way to find someone new, dating sites are littered with scam artists, cheaters, and straight-up liars.

Now, this doesn't mean you should avoid online dating altogether -- just don't believe everything you see out there. In order to help sort out the winners from the losers, we've compiled a list of the top five types of online daters you should definitely avoid, along with some tips to help you save some heartache. Be careful out there, and good luck!

1. Liars

In a recent survey, it was found that most online profiles contain some sort of lie, whether it's the person's age or -- in some cases -- relationship status. White lies -- adding an inch to height or dropping a couple pounds -- are the most common and not a big deal to most people.

Consider these facts according to the April 2007 issue of Proceedings of Computer/Human Interaction:
  • About 52.6 percent of men lie about their height, as do 39 percent of women.
  • Slightly more women lie about their weight (64.1 percent) than men (60.5 percent).
  • When it comes to age, 24.3 percent men lie compared with 13.1 percent of women.
When it comes to misrepresenations of age or relationship status, be careful or you could get seriously burned. In one recent case, a woman met a man on a popular dating site with whom she immediately hit it off. She even put her life on hold to go with him to Dubai when he was transferred for work. Eleven months into the relationship, she came across an e-mail -- from his son! What's more, the e-mail said something about "Mom" saying hi. In one fell swoop, our poor girl found out the man she met online was not only a father -- he was married! She moved back to the United States and has given up on online dating since.

How to Avoid Them:

Ask questions. Though it may be listed on someone's profile, someone's age is fair game in the questions department, so feel free to ask your potential date how old (or young!) they are. You may find that 35 suddenly becomes 42. While you don't want to ask too many questions and scare the person away, it's perfectly fair to verify the big things: age, weight, height, and -- most of all -- whether or not that person is, in fact, single. Half the time, people lie on their profiles to get people interested -- nine times out of ten, someone will level with you about their stats once you show some real interest, since they know they might have a chance of meeting you in person.

Computers, Advice, MySpace

Online Dating -- Five Things to Avoid

Online Dating Profile
Everyone's doing it - over 40 percent of U.S. singles are finding matches online. That's more than 40 million single Americans cruising the Internet looking for love (based on census results that say there are over 100 million single Americans).

So the Internet must be a great place to find true love, right? Not so fast. While online dating can be a great way to find someone new, dating sites are littered with scam artists, cheaters, and straight-up liars.

Now, this doesn't mean you should avoid online dating altogether -- just don't believe everything you see out there. In order to help sort out the winners from the losers, we've compiled a list of the top five types of online daters you should definitely avoid, along with some tips to help you save some heartache. Be careful out there, and good luck!

1. Liars

In a recent survey, it was found that most online profiles contain some sort of lie, whether it's the person's age or -- in some cases -- relationship status. White lies -- adding an inch to height or dropping a couple pounds -- are the most common and not a big deal to most people.

Consider these facts according to the April 2007 issue of Proceedings of Computer/Human Interaction:
  • About 52.6 percent of men lie about their height, as do 39 percent of women.
  • Slightly more women lie about their weight (64.1 percent) than men (60.5 percent).
  • When it comes to age, 24.3 percent men lie compared with 13.1 percent of women.
When it comes to misrepresenations of age or relationship status, be careful or you could get seriously burned. In one recent case, a woman met a man on a popular dating site with whom she immediately hit it off. She even put her life on hold to go with him to Dubai when he was transferred for work. Eleven months into the relationship, she came across an e-mail -- from his son! What's more, the e-mail said something about "Mom" saying hi. In one fell swoop, our poor girl found out the man she met online was not only a father -- he was married! She moved back to the United States and has given up on online dating since.

How to Avoid Them:

Ask questions. Though it may be listed on someone's profile, someone's age is fair game in the questions department, so feel free to ask your potential date how old (or young!) they are. You may find that 35 suddenly becomes 42. While you don't want to ask too many questions and scare the person away, it's perfectly fair to verify the big things: age, weight, height, and -- most of all -- whether or not that person is, in fact, single. Half the time, people lie on their profiles to get people interested -- nine times out of ten, someone will level with you about their stats once you show some real interest, since they know they might have a chance of meeting you in person.

Computers, Advice, Top Lists, MySpace

Five Web Sites You Should Avoid

Time Rates Five Worst WebsitesIt's all too often that someone rates the best Web sites on the Web. But, it's not often enough that the worst Web sites get lambasted, so we're glad to see that's exactly what Time.com has done

They rated the five worst Web sites for various reasons, ranging from business practices to random annoyances. Some highlights include:

  • eHarmony.com gets pegged for charging too much and discriminating against homosexuals.
  • MySpace.com gets hit because of the spammers and the site's seeming unwillingness to do anything about them (a trend that threatens to rot the massive social network from the inside out).
  • SecondLife.com is picked on for its difficulty, performance, and gaggle of griefers that bother new players.
  • Evite.com is nagged for being cool but desperately lacking functionality.
  • Finally, silly graphic proprietor Meez.com is simply called "annoying".

From Time.com

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