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Gamer Girl Explains How to Meet Women in 'World of Warcraft'

Gamer Girl Explains How to Mac it in WoW
Our friends over at Asylum to set all nerds out there running for their inhalers. The men's site has an interview with geek-girl du-jour, Felicia Day, the writer and star of the online 'World of Warcraft'-based sitcom 'The Guild.' Day has also made appearances in 'The Legend of Neil' and 'Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog.'

The fair-skinned, red-headed cutie doles out advice on how to pick up the ladies in 'World of Warcrafgt' (WoW). Day's first advice is, of course, to make sure that the girl one might be going after, virtually, is in fact a member of the fairer sex. She also suggests that guys level up a bit before trying to flirt, since many Wow girls won't even look twice at a noob.

Check out the rest of the interview for more suggestions on how to become a WoW Casanova. [From: Asylum]

eHarmony Creates Separate But Equal Site for Gays

eHarmony Creates Separate but Equal Site for Gays
Congratulations gay and lesbian community, you may have lost out November 4 in California, Arizona, Florida, and Arkansas, but you scored a sweet consolation prize in the New-Jersey-based lawsuit against eHarmony. Realizing that it was about to get nailed to the wall for violating anti-discrimination laws, eHarmony settled with the New Jersey Attorney General out of court.

The settlement gives $5,000 to 46-year-old Eric McKinley, who filed the original suit in 2005, $50,000 to the Attorney General's office to cover administrative costs, and requires eHarmony to launch a new personal ad site aimed at gays and lesbians. That's right, apparently it isn't a violation of anti-discrimination laws to subscribe to a "separate but equal" model.

We try and stay off our high-horse most of the time, but this is patently ridiculous. The company released a statement explaining, "we ultimately decided it was best to settle with the Attorney General since litigation outcomes can be unpredictable." Which is code for, "this is the only way we could keep the queers off our site."

eHarmony stands to actually make money from this settlement once Compatible Partners (the new gay personals site) goes live. It will offer free six month subscriptions to the first 10,000 people who sign up, but after that it's nothing but gravy for the creepily wholesome matchmaking company. [From: Digital Media Wire]

Dating Dilemmas in the Digital Age?


In the age of telecommunications, romance and technology are not easily reconciled, according to this article from MSNBC. Covering disastrous dating tales of avid texters, overly intimate IM conversations and impulsive texts, this piece is largely telling tech-savvy young singles what they already know: Today's is not your parents' dating scene.

As increasingly high-tech dating sites pop up, and as texting and instant messaging make up more and more of our daily social interactions, many of us have found ourselves immersed in digital-age dating, without any sort of consensus on the guidelines.

We here at Switched can at least make some suggestions: Never ask somebody out on a date via text, IM or e-mail; always break up with somebody in person (with a possible exception for long-distance relationships); and never-ever post MySpace or Facebook bulletins about your relationship troubles (We've seen it happen.).

If, beloved Switched readers, any of your own experiences, horror stories or guidelines come to mind, please let us know. Apparently, folks today can use all the help they can get. [Via: Newsvine]

Zoos Go Online to Find Mates for Endangered Species

Digital Dating for Animals
We're all pretty comfortable with the idea of online dating for humans, but mating sites for zoo creatures might be a bit much for even us to swallow. Zoos have long kept what they call studbooks, printed indexes of animals ready for mating, but as with everything else in this world, studbooks are starting to go digital.

Ed Diebold, director of animal collections at Riverbanks Zoo, explains (to CNN) the need for studbooks: "In captivity, usually these populations are considerably smaller than wild populations, which is why you can't afford to allow animals to inbreed or breed along closely related lines." Many zoo keepers now search out potential mates for endangered species kept in captivity with a simple Internet search. CNN reports that the online databases contain information about age, sex, weight, and lineage, but tend to ignore things like turn-ons and turn-offs. Now, however, the online studbooks are starting to record personality details about the animals in hopes of better matching mates.

Currently, these manuals are often e-mailed back and forth and usually out of date. The new electronic databases will be easy to update and faster to search through. Though the idea of digital dating services for animals may seem strange, they may be key to the survival of rare species in captivity. [From: CNN]

Five Online Dates You Should Avoid

Online Dating Profile
Everyone's doing it - over 40 percent of U.S. singles are finding matches online. That's more than 40 million single Americans cruising the Internet looking for love (based on census results that say there are over 100 million single Americans).

So the Internet must be a great place to find true love, right? Not so fast. While online dating can be a great way to find someone new, dating sites are littered with scam artists, cheaters, and straight-up liars.

Now, this doesn't mean you should avoid online dating altogether -- just don't believe everything you see out there. In order to help sort out the winners from the losers, we've compiled a list of the top five types of online daters you should definitely avoid, along with some tips to help you save some heartache. Be careful out there, and good luck!

1. Liars

In a recent survey, it was found that most online profiles contain some sort of lie, whether it's the person's age or -- in some cases -- relationship status. White lies -- adding an inch to height or dropping a couple pounds -- are the most common and not a big deal to most people.

Consider these facts according to the April 2007 issue of Proceedings of Computer/Human Interaction:
  • About 52.6 percent of men lie about their height, as do 39 percent of women.
  • Slightly more women lie about their weight (64.1 percent) than men (60.5 percent).
  • When it comes to age, 24.3 percent men lie compared with 13.1 percent of women.
When it comes to misrepresenations of age or relationship status, be careful or you could get seriously burned. In one recent case, a woman met a man on a popular dating site with whom she immediately hit it off. She even put her life on hold to go with him to Dubai when he was transferred for work. Eleven months into the relationship, she came across an e-mail -- from his son! What's more, the e-mail said something about "Mom" saying hi. In one fell swoop, our poor girl found out the man she met online was not only a father -- he was married! She moved back to the United States and has given up on online dating since.

How to Avoid Them:

Ask questions. Though it may be listed on someone's profile, someone's age is fair game in the questions department, so feel free to ask your potential date how old (or young!) they are. You may find that 35 suddenly becomes 42. While you don't want to ask too many questions and scare the person away, it's perfectly fair to verify the big things: age, weight, height, and -- most of all -- whether or not that person is, in fact, single. Half the time, people lie on their profiles to get people interested -- nine times out of ten, someone will level with you about their stats once you show some real interest, since they know they might have a chance of meeting you in person.

Dating Site Uses DNA Tests to Match Couples

Forget the questionnaires used by companies like eHarmony – it's time to bring serious chemistry into online dating. For $199, you provide Genepartner.com with a swab of your saliva and they'll analyze your DNA to genetically set you up with a partner. Sounds pretty futuristic, right? Well, not exactly.

The Swiss company isn't looking for genes that control metabolism or your propensity for brunettes. Rather, they're looking for your human leukocyte antigen, or HLA, molecules, which play a role in the immune system. Researchers found that people are more attracted to those with the most different HLA molecules from themselves.

The research was conducted on existing couples and their genetic combinations, and the service is also available for pairs who want to see how compatible they are. So, will this be the new trend in dating, or will personality and physical attraction still win out? Either way, at least you know the people here aren't putting up profile pictures from a few dozen pounds ago. [Source: Genepartner.com via TechCrunch]
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Laptop Cakes Pay Homage to Internet Dating


Shockingly enough, the image you see above isn't as radical as you probably think. Just last year we saw a San Francisco couple profess their inexplicable love for TiVo with a his and her cake arrangement, while another treated guests to a flavorful version of their wedding day playlist. This perky pair, however, decided to create cakes that would visually describe just how they ended up together, complete with on-screen profiles and a crossover cable (or something) with a heart along the way. Gives a whole new meaning to the networking category, now doesn't it? [Source: Make: Blog]

Jilted Lover E-Mails Nude Photos, Faces Jail Time

Jilted Lover E-Mails Nude Photos
Note to jilted lovers everywhere: those 'personal' pictures your lady or guy friend sent you are not good fodder for revenge. A man in the UK is facing jail time after forwarding nude images of his Internet lover to her entire address book.

Stephen Hailes, 48, met Karen Parker, 36, in a chat room this summer and the two began an Internet love affair. During their online tryst, Parker, a married mother of two, sent Hailes a collection of nude images. At some point he broke into her E-mail account and discovered she was flirting with other men, sending them the same photos and even meeting off line (Who would have guessed?), which they had yet to do. Apparently Hailes could deal with being the other man, but couldn't handle the prospect of other other-men.

Parker learned of Hailes' actions when friends began contacting her to ask why she had sent them naked photos. In his defense, Hailes claims he only meant to send the images to Parker's husband so he would "realise what sort of woman his wife was." Hailes says he must have clicked the wrong button, though we're unaware of a button in our E-mail clients that automatically sends to our entire address book.

So let this be a lesson: Don't start forwarding naked images of your ex-girlfriend to people if you don't like prison time. And even more importantly, don't send people you don't know nude photos of yourself.

From The Sydney Morning Herald and Fark

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Former All-Star Outfielder Brady Anderson Takes Up Online Dating

Former Allstar Outfielder Brady Anderson Takes Up Online Dating
Brady Anderson, former outfield star of the Baltimore Orioles, is 44, rich, has a child with a Playboy model, and is by most subjective opinions what people refer to as "scorchingly hot." But for some reason, the utility outfielder must be having trouble meeting women as he's begun trolling online dating sites for potential mates and sexual partners.

Internet dating has certainly been a boon for those of us who are less socially inclined, but if a chiseled celebrity athlete is forced online, what hope is there for the rest of us.

From TMZ

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One-Third of Women Who Meet People Online Have Sex on First Date

Online Dating Leads to Unprotected Sex

It's confirmed: Online dating is the way to go if you're looking to get lucky. According to a recent survey published by the Sexuality Research and Social Policy research journal, one-third of women who meet people online have sex on the first date, and a whopping three-quarters of those surveyed do not use a condom. Meanwhile, a mere 27-percent engage in oral sex on the first day.

That's right, online dating is like grazing a lush field of sexually-transmitted diseases (STDs).

The high likelihood of sex on the first date is partially attributable to an increased comfort level. According to the survey, having extended or multiple conversations with a person online can decrease the tension and general awkwardness that accompanies a first date. The sense of familiarity not only increases the chances for intercourse, but it also will make a person more likely to cast off better judgment and go sans condom. That, and, of course, alcohol.

They neglected to mention that pretty much 100 percent of men will have sex on the first date -- if given the chance.

Okay, you can stop giggling now.

From News.com.au


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