When Carole Bruder filed a restraining order against her estranged husband Harry, she had every reason to believe that her soon-to-be ex-hubby would never dare contact her again. Apparently, though, Harry didn't think that Facebook friend requests fell under the legal definition of "contact." According to a
Pasco County Sheriff's Office report obtained by the Smoking Gun, the 54-year-old plumber from Florida has admitted to contacting his wife twice on Facebook within the past month -- a clear violation, investigators argue, of a
court-ordered domestic violence injunction that bars him from making contact. When police pressed him about the friend requests, Bruder reportedly replied, "Yeah, I did it," although he later admitted that it was "stupid" to send them. Now, the Floridian finds himself in jail, pending $5,000 in bail.
Bruder, who also admitted to changing his wife's password on her Yahoo! e-mail account, was clearly none too pleased about Carole's restraining order -- nor the counseling sessions he had to attend as a result. Shortly after the injunction was issued last month, the husband even posted a note on his
Facebook page, in which he wrote, "today my future x wife thinks she won but the real winner is me for i know the truth she is nothing but a lying emotionally disturbed woman who needs help to handle previous abusive relationship." There may not be any "real winner" in a case like this, but we're willing to bet that it's probably
not the person sitting in a jail cell. [From:
The Smoking Gun, via:
Huffington Post]
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Subscribe to commentsthomAug 17th 2010 2:49PM
Absurd.
MaryAug 17th 2010 3:03PM
Not condoning the husband's behavior...no contact means no contact. The wife could have and should have blocked his name and set up her privacy so he could have never found her on FB. A very easy thing to do.
jalutyAug 17th 2010 3:13PM
The idiot wasn't jailed for a facebook request, he was jailed for violating a protection order. He happened to use facebook to do it. Let's stop with the BS headlines.
llittleangelAug 17th 2010 4:49PM
So many people keep their facebooks open to anyone. You can check their photos, etc. This guy could check all the people that are her friends and just keep clicking until he finds someone who has his/her fb open. Then go in and click on that person's wall and hopefully, for him, his ex will be there chatting away with this friend. If you have a restraining order against a violent person, make sure that your friends have their FB on complete privacy.
VitoAug 17th 2010 5:09PM
He knew full well a facebook contact was indeed a contact. What a wacko. This woman is well rid of this psycho; I wish her all the best while the cyberstalker rots in jail, where he belongs!
joAug 17th 2010 5:13PM
It is amazing the hatred in the country.... take a look in the mirror... YOU?
maribelv007Aug 17th 2010 7:22PM
Just the point of him trying to contact her is punishible, plus if you read carefully he friend requested her twice guess he couldnt get the hint. Thats what you call stalker
KaryAug 17th 2010 5:41PM
He can say what he wants, but you can't get a court ordered injunction without some sort of valid proof that there is a need for one. Therefore, he must have done something to warrant it and isn't all so innocent, regardless of what happened to her in the past.
He was wrong and that is that. Does he need to be wasting jail space for something this trivial? I doubt it. But then again, who knows what he might be capable of.
SergioAug 17th 2010 5:48PM
Pasco county fl is one of floridas nastiest places. Its full of hillbillies, inbred white trailor trash and meth heads. The average IQ in pasco is 50.
JYGGA 631Aug 17th 2010 6:02PM
there has to be more to this story, i tried to involve the cops when someone was friend requesting me and sending me all kinds of messed up messages and they told me thee was nothin they could do because someone couldve stole their password, hence, there was no way to prove that it was that person who was actually doing this kind of fucked up shit ya know.... idk, maybe the laws are differentin florida...
JAY
WhoAmIAug 17th 2010 6:06PM
I find it very interesting on what each person has said and I think that everyone has a valid point but in the end there is nothing that we can do and it has already been done.
JYGGAAug 17th 2010 6:16PM
There has to be more to this.... because i once had this person who kept sending me friend request's and nasty msg's and i tried to get the cops involved, and they told me that there is no way to know if it's really him, hence his password might have been stolen and someone could just be makin it look like its coming from him so....... there definitly must be more to it, unless the laws are drastically different down in Florida ya know...
MaryAug 17th 2010 6:55PM
that's nothing new, my [estranged] nephew blocked my brother [his now-estranged dad] from his facebook so my brother can't contact him anymore. the young man was emotionally spent after his granfather's [on his mother's side] died. as a result his father, and his own aunt [me] was barred from the old man's funeral my nephew igored him at the wake, and was "tackled" bouncer style by his ex- brother-in law! who warned him that they are "gonna lock him out if he shows up at the church" that family had no right to do that to my brother! and he should've fought his ex-wife for custody of his 4 now grown up children! [and his ex showed up!] because it was HER dad! such hypercrates his ex-in law's family was! they let the dad's kids [ and his absent son's spouse] go to the funeral, yet they already shut out their dad, and disinvited their aunt!.....on their dad's side!
angieAug 17th 2010 7:00PM
Unfortunately laws here in Florida aren't that much different. It's very hard to prove that the person is the one actually sending the messages. There is no way to prove that it's the person. Like the police told you, the passwords could have been stolen, they could have left the computer window open and someone came behind them and so forth..The only way you can maybe prove it's that person (and it's very slim chance) is that the person refers to something personal or known only to you and them..But like I said that is a very SLIM chance and it's hard to prove.
angieAug 21st 2010 9:15PM
If you get a restraining order against someone, that person is not supposed to contact you in no way shape or form. That means no tweets, no facebook, no myspace, no texts or phone calls and definitely no 3rd party contact. Again, contact thru myspace, facebook or emails is very hard to prove because there is no way to know 100% that the person that sent the message is the person. This man violated the restraining order by sending the petitioner (ex wife) the friend request, regardless of whether she accepted or not. The contact was made and therefore the violation occurred. If he would have sent a text even if she doesn't respond he has already violated and the same goes with a phone call regardless of whether she responds or not. It's still considered a violation and depending on the state, can carry a jail term of 1 year.
rwallerfamAug 17th 2010 7:07PM
What, hes such a jovial looking guy. I can't imagine anyone ever wondering just how far from the edge this guy is. Which then begs the question, what ledge is he close to? Free air or postal?
Joe Papierz JrAug 17th 2010 7:55PM
What part of "NO CONTACT" didn't he understand in that restraining order? No sympathy from me.
davidAug 17th 2010 8:31PM
What is a facebook?
geriAug 17th 2010 8:38PM
No contact means no contact. He violated the order and therefore showed no respect for the authority of the judge who signed the order nor the woman it was issued for.
sef69Aug 17th 2010 9:14PM
JUDGES GIVE OUT R/O LIKE CANDY.....IT IS A COMMON TOOL USED BY PEOPLE JUST TO BUST CHOPS..QUITE A JOKE.....