Dying on Facebook Is More Complicated Than It Seems
Last month, more than 6 million senior citizens joined Facebook, representing the fastest-growing age demographic among the site's entire membership base. With this surge in elderly users, though, comes a surge in dying users -- something that Facebook has struggled to handle with grace. As part of its effort to connect us with people with we fall out of touch with, Facebook uses a system of algorithms to cook up a list of "friends" we should re-connect with. The only problem, though, is that the algorithms have a hard time determining when someone has passed away. "Sometimes it's quite comforting when their faces show up," 37-year-old Tamu Townsend told the New York Times. "But at some point it doesn't become comforting to see that. The service is telling you to reconnect with someone you can't." Others, however, derive a unique sense of relief seeing deceased friends pop up on their homepages. Courtney Purvin, for example, was initially startled to see the image of a recently passed away family member, but eventually came to appreciate the reminder. "It made me start talking about him and thinking about him, so that was good," she says. "But it was definitely a little creepy."
Whereas the site used to immediately erase a user's profile upon confirmation of his or her death, it now allows members to turn deceased friends' pages into memorial spaces. Even that system, though, has its flaws. For starters, the option isn't well publicized, and requires users to fill out a form that asks them to provide proof of death, which is then reviewed by a Facebook staff member. Even after the memorial space is set up, the dead user cannot add new friends, meaning that family members who aren't on Facebook can't access their late relatives' photos or Wall posts.
Facebook's most worrisome problem, though, remains simply determining whether or not a member has actually died. With one employee for every 350,000 members, the social network has begun exploring new, automated mechanisms to detect when one of its users passes on. Spokeswoman Meredith Chin says the company is now considering implementing new software that can scan profiles for key phrases like 'Rest in peace,' or 'I miss you.' Yet even that proposal could prove vulnerable to pranks or false alarms -- a reality of which Chin seems fully aware. "[W]e can't get it wrong," Chin acknowledges. "We have to do it correctly." [From: New York Times]
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Comments
28
Subscribe to commentssinglemaltkillerJul 19th 2010 4:46PM
I recently lost a close family member and one of the things that helped get me through this was watching the tributes pour in from friends and family on their facebook page.
DeeJul 19th 2010 4:55PM
That is the correct spelling, dying, no such word as (dieing)word looks wrong too.
I am a Senior Citizen as well
Clarice HakalowJul 19th 2010 5:16PM
We were first contacted from my Daughter and Ex Husband.
First they printed a picture of a dog that my daughter would NEVER own----send mistake was when my daughter supposedly asked my son's birthday-----I knew right away this was a scam as my daughter would NOT forget her precious brothers birthday----Watch out for this----it is a SCAM
j.Jul 19th 2010 5:19PM
I say, do nothing. Stop looking for problems.
alexaJul 19th 2010 6:10PM
Last year, a friend of mine was brutally murdered. Her Facebook page has been a means of communication and a beacon for her friends to gather together and lament our loss as well as share our memories of our friend. It is also a place to post the status of her killer's status. He is in jail. Hopefully he will rot there or die very painfully for his crime.
Dave MillerJul 19th 2010 6:30PM
I was wondering what could be done about a person dying. A person passed away last fall who was mutual friends with several of my friends and it kept asking me to friend this person long after she had died. I did punch the X beside her name as somebody suggested and she hasn't reappeared to be friended.
standforyou55Jul 19th 2010 7:56PM
Yes, this is a problem. A friend who died under tragic conditions one week ago showed up on my Facebook page with that reminder. Very painful.
RussellJul 19th 2010 8:38PM
Guys,
Being a widower; twice. I have issues; and I don't have issues. So, for me; this is hard to take at times. And again; not. My "quandry"...............................