Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Sure, Facebook can be a lot of fun. It's a great way to reconnect with lost friends and to keep up with people on the fringes of your social circle. And as far as workday distractions go, there's nothing better.
It's hardly a perfect service, though. Minor aggravations add up fast and can drive you nuts. We've combed through the annoyances to find the ten annoyances that bug people the most.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Constant interface changes
Why it's annoying: Granted, innovation is necessary to avoid becoming stale, but sometimes you're better off leaving well enough alone. Facebook has radically overhauled its front page so many times that it's hard to keep count. Just as the anger dies down over one design, the site changes things again -- and confusion sets in. What's the difference between "News feed" and "Live feed"? And why can't Facebook remember which I prefer?
Possible solution: Sadly, there's not much you can do about this -- except wait for the next face-lift.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Inappropriate automated friend suggestions
Why it's annoying: Friend suggestions can be handy, but when Facebook tries to push an ex-girlfriend or boyfriend on you, it's kind of awkward. Similarly, if you've had a major falling-out with someone who has mutual friends, you're bound to see their face pop up in the 'suggestion' field at some point. It makes a clean break that much harder to get.
Possible solution: The little "x" to the right will make the suggestion go away forever. To prevent further frustration, you might want to also click "see all" and weed out any other offending names.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Never-ending game invitations
Why it's annoying: 'Farmville' and 'Mafia Wars' might be fun, but if you don't want to play them, the constant invites are infuriating. Many Facebook games are like Ponzi schemes; the way to succeed is to get more people playing. And once you've managed to filter out one game, another pops up.
Possible solution: It's not too hard to hide the requests and invitations for these games. Just click "Block this application" when you get the first invite. Then, hover over the updates that are clogging your news feed, and click "Hide" when the word appears.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Political fights
Why it's annoying: Between cable news and talk radio, it's hard enough to hide the squabbling between the left and the right. So when political debates fire up on Facebook, it's particularly annoying. All you want to do is see friends' pictures and learn what they're up to -- not eavesdrop on a debate over healthcare reform.
Possible solution: If you've got a friend who picks such fights in their status updates, you might be best off hiding them. You can still check in on them whenever you'd like, but you won't have opinions shoved down your throat.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Imported updates from Twitter
Why it's annoying: Tweets have their own language and shorthand, and if you're not familiar with the 140-character-or-less updates, it might look like someone had a hand spasm while typing. Facebook and Twitter are two entirely different services -- and forcing the two together feels like a poorly arranged marriage.
Possible solution: Once again, you're kind of stuck. Your best bet is to either embrace the language of the tweet -- or learn to selectively ignore posts.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: No 'Dislike' button
Why it's annoying: A friend proudly mentions in a status update that she got a promotion. That's an easy thing to like. But what about when they announce they've been laid off? In its relentless drive to be cheery, Facebook hasn't given us the choice to quickly commiserate or disagree with someone.
Possible solution: There's an active lobbying effort to get Facebook to add a 'Dislike' button, with over 553,000 people members of a group specifically asking for one. Hopefully, the powers that be will listen to the protests.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: People who 'friend' you too fast
Why it's annoying: Sometimes it's a person you've gone out with one time. Sometimes it's a coworker you only speak with occasionally. But odds are you've been 'friended' by someone you'd rather not have on your list. Technically, ignoring the request is an option, but that can create some real world tensions.
Possible solution: Your privacy settings can make this problem an easy one to conquer. You can block specific people from seeing status updates, photos and more by choosing 'custom' and black-listing them. Then, hide their updates from your news feed.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Stealth tagging
Why it's annoying: We all have horrifying childhood pictures or shots we wouldn't want to share with the world. Invariably, though, friends will post them as a joke of sorts and tag you. All of a sudden, that prom picture of you with acne, coke-bottle glasses, and a really bad perm is out there for everyone to see.
Possible solution: You can untag yourself, which prevents others from putting your name to the picture -- but in some cases, that's closing the barn door after the horse has run away.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Obvious celebrity marketing ploys
Why it's annoying: Celebrities love Facebook -- or so it would seem. But all too often, it's someone writing on their behalf (and often poorly). That doesn't stop avid fans from falling over themselves to 'like' every comment and chime in as part of the 'amen' chorus.
Possible solution: Unless you're sure it's actually the celebrity doing the updates, you'd often do better to just avoid the pages. After all, is it really that critical that you declare yourself as a fan?
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Comments
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Subscribe to commentssuitman36Mar 17th 2010 2:30PM
i NEVER EVER EVER click on any of the links through facebook. there is nothing but trouble waiting if you do.
my wife did it once, and we got a trojan horse virus. was able to get rid of it (it was a pop up ad that came up all the time), and we learned that lesson.
facebook is fine for chatting with friends, and finding old friends....but, thats about it. all the other stuff (the games and all) are useless.
David S.Mar 17th 2010 3:36PM
Hrylbill -- I couldn't agree with you more. I have no interest in what friends and relatives are doing at any time of the day. Hell, most of my relatives I rarely see and I like it that way. Nor do I give a crap about old classmates. Sheesh, we survived long before Facebook or any of the other sites. The number of people I know who are addicted to this is hilarious. And not just young people -- I might expect it from them, but people of all ages and walks of life. Go figure.
ChargergrlMar 17th 2010 4:16PM
Spoken like someone with no friends!
danahodleMar 17th 2010 4:41PM
At first I really didn't like Facebook as time went on I despised it. Everyone was requesting to be a friend...whether they were from Elementary School or High School or recently. What bothers me the most about that is if I didn't like you back then I sure as hell don't like you now. I ignore most of them but the same people keep on requesting me as a friend. The status thing also gets me annoyed..people keep putting what they are doing..sometimes they put verses to songs...What the hell, if you must put all of your business out there make it short and sweet..no paragraphs or short stories. People actually get into fights on this thing to..is nothing personal anymore? I definitely don't think that should ever happen. I don't care what you and your man/lady are fighting about. If you want my advice call me (text me if you must..not a big fan of that either. I cant remember the last time someone called me before they text me)..don't leave a comment on my wall.
kikiMar 17th 2010 4:54PM
You're hard lol!!! Why do you even bother having a facebook? You remind me of my mother who still complains about the switch from typewriters to computers!
kikiMar 17th 2010 4:49PM
I like facebook! I also like seeing what all my old pals are doing, regardless of how much time has passed since I last spoke to them. I'm pleased to see the majority of us turned out pretty well! I don't get the disdain from people who seem to be self-centered loonies...whatever floats your boats! That being said, I have been reluctant for quite some time to use any of the FB applications, only because a friend told me quite a bit ago that one gave her a virus. I'll only use farmville if they let me grow weed on it, trade it for crack on mafia wars, then smoke that down with my pals on yoville.
DeeMar 17th 2010 5:31PM
I use Facebook to keep up with my children and my grandchild, since I live over 200 miles away from them and only see them 4-6 times a year. I don't hit on any of the links that appear. Common sense is always needed
pinkkitty626Mar 17th 2010 5:45PM
Yeah, the facebook/twitter crap has gone way to far. I was on myspace for quite a while and I had a lot of friends (almost 300) who were legitimately friends, relatives, co-workers. But after a while I saw the BS that went on there and I got out. People trying to appear popular by collecting "friends". I started a facebook account, mostly just to look up old friends that I hadn't been able to find on myspace, and that's a joke too. I found the people I was looking for, got their phone numbers, and ditched facebook. It's just such a big farce. The time I used to spend on myspace I now spend doing REAL things, like having lunch with a friend, or picking up the phone and hearing their voice. I have no desire to looks at hundreds of pictures of people (mostly redundant) or to bore them with mine. I really think a lot of these people need to stop, smell the roses & get a life.
E. V.Mar 17th 2010 6:05PM
Talking to people face to face or on the phone voice to voice is communication. When you use those sites you are leaving yourself open to the public. Unfortunately, most young people are "untouchable" until they are damaged in some way. I use them because I live in the boonies and the time differences make it simpler for the grandchildren to keep me up to date on their progress, I still like the "real" communications on weekends. To those who think that those who don't use computers are friendless, they have more real close friends than you because they actually can touch people.
JulieMar 17th 2010 6:10PM
Love facebook. Don't do the apps at all and you can pretty much tell what's a virus and what is not. Kids are usually the downloaders of such nonsense. They are time consuming and useless.
I love the fact that people I would never get to see or here from are there and I can be in touch if I'd like. It's not so much there updates! Not that it happens every day, but it's nice to know there out there--Especially those that live far away! Keep it up, it's a great product and it shows by how many people across the world use it! I'm sure some peole didn't like the car when it was invented...or electricity or the cell phone. If it wasn't a usefull tool, it would not exist!
jakeandsydsmomMar 17th 2010 6:48PM
I LOVE Facebook. I am able to keep in touch with old friends that live miles away, my daughter who is away at college, my daughter in law and my granddaughter that live 1300 miles away and most importantly my son who is currently deployed to Afghanistan.
Momof2Mar 17th 2010 6:54PM
Facebook haters- If you don't like it, don't use it, quitcherbellyachin' about it and go take your critical, crabby butt back into the cave you came from. This is the way a lot of us keep in touch with family and friends. If you're using Facebook and you're not having fun, you're doing it wrong. :o)
VeronicaMar 18th 2010 12:09PM
HaHa doin it wrong...Love it!
tomMar 17th 2010 6:56PM
i tried that app and it leads to an endless series of questions, it was immediately obvious they were just jerking me off. it would be nice if we could see who was googling us and whatnot
Kathleen VaughanMar 17th 2010 7:26PM
Moderation in all things, I always say. Most people are too busy to spend an excessive amount of time on FB. It is fun though to keep up with what your friends are doing.
JaqqMar 17th 2010 8:45PM
Wait a minute, I am new to FB and love to write on my account. I write everything from opinions to self help snippets. I might hope to reach a disgruntled soul that is unhappy and be able to change that. I can tell by reading all this there is a lot of unhappy campers in the world of inter-net communication. FB is a wonderful venue to voice an opinion, tell a story, say hi to a long lost or new friend. I thought that is what FB is for. I even post some pictures for people to entertain themselves. We can all be writers on FB, what's the harm? Turn it off if you really have a problem with other peoples life story's. I never use it to be mean or post on another's wall, just my own. Please block me if you don't want to read what I have to say, don't hate me.
Birdlegs0723Mar 17th 2010 10:02PM
I am hearing impaired so it gives me communication with people that now
have cell phones and no longer use or have there landline. Therefore I am
able to get email address's and cell phone numbers to text. However, I have
made a error in accepting friends of friends suggested to be on my post.
I do not want to hurt anyones feelings. But, there are a few that I think are
want to get in with me to connect with some of my friends. I have read some
remarks that had to have come into my space to get the information.
Nothing really very personal but it is violating my private life.
How can I find out if my file is being stalked?
VeronicaMar 18th 2010 12:08PM
Oh twenty years I will be old but who cares I will facebook my birthday woo hoo. Lighten up lifes to short.
stewMar 18th 2010 6:37PM
you mean like you are doing right on here? oh, but, its not facebook or twitter, so i guess that makes it ok, right?
i guess you wouldn't have been backing the telephone either...since you don't need to be face to face there.
its called 'progress'. you don't neccessarily have to like it. but, you are using it right here!!!
dimwit