Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Sure, Facebook can be a lot of fun. It's a great way to reconnect with lost friends and to keep up with people on the fringes of your social circle. And as far as workday distractions go, there's nothing better.
It's hardly a perfect service, though. Minor aggravations add up fast and can drive you nuts. We've combed through the annoyances to find the ten annoyances that bug people the most.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Constant interface changes
Why it's annoying: Granted, innovation is necessary to avoid becoming stale, but sometimes you're better off leaving well enough alone. Facebook has radically overhauled its front page so many times that it's hard to keep count. Just as the anger dies down over one design, the site changes things again -- and confusion sets in. What's the difference between "News feed" and "Live feed"? And why can't Facebook remember which I prefer?
Possible solution: Sadly, there's not much you can do about this -- except wait for the next face-lift.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Inappropriate automated friend suggestions
Why it's annoying: Friend suggestions can be handy, but when Facebook tries to push an ex-girlfriend or boyfriend on you, it's kind of awkward. Similarly, if you've had a major falling-out with someone who has mutual friends, you're bound to see their face pop up in the 'suggestion' field at some point. It makes a clean break that much harder to get.
Possible solution: The little "x" to the right will make the suggestion go away forever. To prevent further frustration, you might want to also click "see all" and weed out any other offending names.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Never-ending game invitations
Why it's annoying: 'Farmville' and 'Mafia Wars' might be fun, but if you don't want to play them, the constant invites are infuriating. Many Facebook games are like Ponzi schemes; the way to succeed is to get more people playing. And once you've managed to filter out one game, another pops up.
Possible solution: It's not too hard to hide the requests and invitations for these games. Just click "Block this application" when you get the first invite. Then, hover over the updates that are clogging your news feed, and click "Hide" when the word appears.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Political fights
Why it's annoying: Between cable news and talk radio, it's hard enough to hide the squabbling between the left and the right. So when political debates fire up on Facebook, it's particularly annoying. All you want to do is see friends' pictures and learn what they're up to -- not eavesdrop on a debate over healthcare reform.
Possible solution: If you've got a friend who picks such fights in their status updates, you might be best off hiding them. You can still check in on them whenever you'd like, but you won't have opinions shoved down your throat.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Imported updates from Twitter
Why it's annoying: Tweets have their own language and shorthand, and if you're not familiar with the 140-character-or-less updates, it might look like someone had a hand spasm while typing. Facebook and Twitter are two entirely different services -- and forcing the two together feels like a poorly arranged marriage.
Possible solution: Once again, you're kind of stuck. Your best bet is to either embrace the language of the tweet -- or learn to selectively ignore posts.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: No 'Dislike' button
Why it's annoying: A friend proudly mentions in a status update that she got a promotion. That's an easy thing to like. But what about when they announce they've been laid off? In its relentless drive to be cheery, Facebook hasn't given us the choice to quickly commiserate or disagree with someone.
Possible solution: There's an active lobbying effort to get Facebook to add a 'Dislike' button, with over 553,000 people members of a group specifically asking for one. Hopefully, the powers that be will listen to the protests.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: People who 'friend' you too fast
Why it's annoying: Sometimes it's a person you've gone out with one time. Sometimes it's a coworker you only speak with occasionally. But odds are you've been 'friended' by someone you'd rather not have on your list. Technically, ignoring the request is an option, but that can create some real world tensions.
Possible solution: Your privacy settings can make this problem an easy one to conquer. You can block specific people from seeing status updates, photos and more by choosing 'custom' and black-listing them. Then, hide their updates from your news feed.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Stealth tagging
Why it's annoying: We all have horrifying childhood pictures or shots we wouldn't want to share with the world. Invariably, though, friends will post them as a joke of sorts and tag you. All of a sudden, that prom picture of you with acne, coke-bottle glasses, and a really bad perm is out there for everyone to see.
Possible solution: You can untag yourself, which prevents others from putting your name to the picture -- but in some cases, that's closing the barn door after the horse has run away.
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Problem: Obvious celebrity marketing ploys
Why it's annoying: Celebrities love Facebook -- or so it would seem. But all too often, it's someone writing on their behalf (and often poorly). That doesn't stop avid fans from falling over themselves to 'like' every comment and chime in as part of the 'amen' chorus.
Possible solution: Unless you're sure it's actually the celebrity doing the updates, you'd often do better to just avoid the pages. After all, is it really that critical that you declare yourself as a fan?
Most Annoying Things About Facebook
Comments
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Subscribe to commentsredneckpriestFeb 18th 2010 8:15PM
Of these women who r playing games , any of them gotten divorce yet. It is ok to play for a bit but some of these game goes on for hours. And if these women have young kids at home ,isn't that abused. Men do the same thing and should be treated the same. It would be Hell if ya had to back to the old fashion way with no computer or cell phone.
cindyFeb 18th 2010 10:56PM
So I guess it is ok for a priest to be on the computer but not a MOM! Maybe if you were out bringing more souls to Jesus instead of sitting on the computer passing judgement and stereotyping people the world might be a better place. What church are you with? I will avoid it like the plague!
DeborahFeb 19th 2010 12:09AM
Redneck: At least 10 punctuation, grammar and spelling errors in 5 sentences. Please, you can't be too bright. Spare us your "wisdom".
AllisonFeb 18th 2010 8:25PM
Couldn't they find a picture of a 40-something woman for the illustration? That woman is at least 55.
wcolon920Feb 18th 2010 8:41PM
40, 43, 48? What's the big deal? That's not old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CharFeb 19th 2010 4:45AM
Thank you, wcolon920! And I think the rude commenters should know that we do not neglect our families and dinner is still on the table every night! Go jump in a lake!! Its about time us 'MOMS' had something besides laundry and dishes!! ;o)
GloriaFeb 18th 2010 9:01PM
I think this is wonderful, I was born January 2, 1922, and learned how to use the computer at the age of 67, women need to keep up with technology!
obabystarFeb 18th 2010 9:32PM
That picture is woman in her late 60's at LEAST!!!
KatieFeb 18th 2010 9:31PM
That woman in the picture is in her late 60's at the LEAST.....!!!
HarryFeb 18th 2010 9:59PM
Hey...thats MY mom!
brileyvilleFeb 19th 2010 8:00AM
redneckpriest have ya ever thought about sorry ass men that cheat on thier wives or even girlfriends 40 year old woman aren't dead we do get depressed and this takes alot of stress off of us to keep from killing the creeps! one day we wake up with maybe some of our female friends 12 and up 100 to make us see the light and then we relize to say see ya chump!!! we have lives but have gotten be be great friends with our facebook family also i have aloty of men friends on here that play the same games what do you got to say about that!? there alot of homebound people that are disabled that aleast make them beable to communicate with others they might not otherwise beable to! Don't knock till ua tried it! but for some reason i think you propably play more than the 40 year old women, ya sound alittle bitter too did your woman leave you cause you played facebook games???? lol!!!!
Roger MartinezFeb 19th 2010 2:44AM
I'm a 48 year old man, Cool, now I know where I can go to meet women! Now I want to know where do I go to meet the 30 - 35 crowd of women, they are the hottest!
mk4199Feb 19th 2010 12:53AM
two words for grand ma.....dental plan.....
sexystep15Feb 19th 2010 1:27AM
Wow.. I'm proud to say that both of my parents, grandparents, Aunts and Uncles play farmville with me.. Sadly.. it has helped me talk to my parents more and I'm glad to see them so happy and excited over "adopting" a virtual Calf
MeicheleVFeb 24th 2010 10:19AM
I am a 45 year old mom...I enjoy playing Mafia Wars...and my 59 year old husband doesn't care because he is busy tending to his farm or his zoo!! And I only play once or twice a day...so no divorce here!!
SonyaFeb 19th 2010 1:42AM
OK Earl,
Why dont ou go back yor BUSCH Beer AFTER rasing our your neglecked youngins, Mom needs a! break
DoloresFeb 19th 2010 2:54AM
I happen to be a 71 year old great grandmother and I am happy to say that I love Farmville, I play with my daughters, grand daughters, people I know from church, my sister, assorted friends and some strangers who know others who are playing. It is total escapeism and a quote I saw tonight on the facebook home page sums it up very well. The player sent in a picture of her farmhouse with flowers all around and her cats playing outside, her comment was, " how I wish that we could live in a place like this, peaceful and beautiful, but sad to say it is makebelieve and the cats are bigger than the door!" How can anyone find fault with a non-violent, harmless diversion that is fun and funny at the same time? I plan to play and enjoy it until I have a huge farm with a Villa!
tillieMar 4th 2010 6:11PM
right on sister!
GROOVIFeb 19th 2010 3:44AM
hey women of gaming age , verizons games on demand , has a game called insane , and boy it is too , it will keep you up all night and is better than sex , lol check it out , you will not regret it !!
LoriFeb 19th 2010 5:08AM
I'm 48 and I think these games are stupid. Don't have time to play them and wouldn't if I could. I have a life.