Man Dumped Over Pre-Loaded Sexts on His Phone

I have a Virgin phone & if I see that it's GONE!!!!!!!!!! HOW DARE THEY!!!!! RUINING THAT RELATIONSHIP & maybe others?????

also remember this was a random joke from a cell phone store and it only happened to a few people, I am sure she didn't assume "oh this text is from the virgin store as a joke". lol. logic people.

Do you all realize what the jist of the story is about? It it was not written about the woman snooping. That is what the virgin sales rep, commented on to divert peoples attention away from the real problem which was the sexting that was put on peoples phone without any say so. And for you to fall for those comments that werent even facts is ridiculous. This is not high school, quit worrying about someone elses relationship just cause your not happy with your own or dont have one! What was done by the employees at vigin mobile was very wrong, snooping or no snooping!

I can honestly see it from both angles. In a country of men that the majority are not faithful, when you find one that is, it's hard to believe that he isn't seeing other women. Not saying that she was right to snoop, but the reasoning behind her snooping is, "if he's too good to be true, he probably is" but if you have that kind of insecurity, you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with. If she were phone savvy, she would have found phone numbers or at least names either at the top or the bottom if it was a REAL text message and not a pre-made response by a phone company for quick text. It is also my suspicion that she likely knew it was not a real text and just wanted out of the relationship and used his phone having this feature as an excuse. And as others have already said, she wouldn't believe the truth if that wasn't the case, and if it is the case, it's because she knows what the truth is. Get a new woman, Darren, and don't go back to someone who is that quick to drop you like a bag of dung.

Hey, she must have had some reason to not trust him. Sure nobody wants their privacy invaded. He had nothing to hide and it is unfortunate the phones were pre-loaded. If the g/f can't get over it, then dump her. If she doesn't trust him it's probably because she has been cheated on more than once.

I hope this person reunites with his girlfriend. If your relationship was solid, and she believes in you, it will be ok. Also, I warn people about what they put on facebook, etc, Hacks can invade your privacy so easy on the internet. I like the internet as a learning tool for me, but some people use it for cruelty. Good luck

If a girl has doubts about a guy, and snoops on him and doesn't find anything, it can set her striaght. Been there, done that. There's nothing wrong with poking around a little. Either a girl will find nothing and everything will be great, or she'll find something, and it's a damn good thing she checked. How can you trust someone if they can't be open and share everything with you?

I can see it now...... passwords, PIN's, voice codes, fingerprint and retina scanners (lol) to protect against snooping and unauthorized cell phone use. He's probably better off without her though...... and to switch carriers.

If she broke up with, what is obviously, a loyal boyfriend with no evidence other than a text message. It was only a matter of time anyway.

She probably wasn't doing him and he needed relief.

Guys, guys, guys! Trust is built on the assumption that nobody is doin' anything wrong! If something reaches out and slaps you in the face, you don't ignore it and say, "Couldn't be my guy! I trust him!" Grow up!

I am really pissed about everybody going off on the woman because she might have been snooping. No wonder no one stays married anymore, with bonehead advice floating around like that. Snooping is NOT the HORRIBLE CRIME every guy on this board thinks it is. ( What are you all, like 12?) Jeez Louise, in this day and age you sometimes have to watch your back. I bet all the guys bitchin' would be the first to look through his lady's things. I am happily married for over 15 years. My husband and I are good together, and treat each other with respect. But if he wants to go through my stuff, I laugh, and let him. It seems too many men (and a lot of women) these days are too hot for fight. "Dump the bitch for snooping through his things" What kind of sick childish way of thinking is this? Some people are too stupid to be married. Also, Way to a happy marriage? Don't listen to your idiot (single) friends.

Every person that has a Virgin mobile account should deluge the company with
complaints. Screwing with peoples private lives can be a very dangerous road
to follow, yet nobody seems interested in finding the basterds who did this. One
can only hope the courts won't find it funny, or perhaps the wrong guy that has
no conscience, no sense of humor, no girl friend now, nothing left to lose and a baseball bat.

Just wanted to see if anything I type ever gets through the screeners.

the woman dumped the guy because of ascii code stored in the memory chip of an electronic communcation device, NOT because the guy was unfaithfull.

HER mistake, and HER lose. If she did not believe the guy when he told her "I dont know where those text messages came from" then SHE has issues.

Reality trumps an overactive imagination every day. The woman is an airhead.

If it was a new phone, I understand why she would be looking through it - new gadget interest and all. She probably wasn't snooping, just flipping through stuff and opened up the messages folder.

However, her reaction is rather extreme, since he had only had the phone (I can only assume) at most for several days, so Darren may be well off with another... less crazy girlfriend. If they were together two and a half years (according to the linked article) and she throws him out this readily, he's better off.