How to Handle a Geeklet Girl
Wired.com's Geekdad blog always has great articles about living with tech and obscure pop culture in the 21st century. Last week's article focuses on an oft-stereotyped kind of kid: the female geek. Offering tips on how to support a girl with a penchant for reading and 'Lord of the Rings,' writer Natania Barron attempts to guide parents in guiding their children. "[Even] if you don't get the stuff she reads, reiterate that reading is awesome," she urges.On the subject of friendships, Barron notes, "Geek girls discover more friends among guys than girls... Good, enduring relationships between girls are important." Written from the perspective of an adult reflecting on her geek childhood, Barron's piece points out strong, fictional, nerdy female characters like 'Girl Genius' Agatha Clay and 'A Wrinkle in Time's' Meg Murry. (We like Hermione and Violet Baudelaire, ourselves.)
We find Barron's advice, however, to be applicable to all children. Engage in their interests. Bolster their confidence. Encourage their idiosyncrasies (so long as they're healthy). But geekdom is a term that is more in vogue now than ever, and wanting to write code or speak Klingon is more of a cute quirk than it's ever been.
What is today's 'geek,' then? Our definition goes beyond having a mere Internet addiction, and ranges from being aware of pop-cultural references deemed uncool by the mainstream (WoW, Battlestar Galactica) to taking pride in one's smarts. But being cool and geeky aren't mutually exclusive, either; 'Harry Potter' is a hit movie, yet 'HP' knowledge is big in the Geek-iverse. Perhaps, then, whether it be a love for Ray Bradbury or 'Star Trek' trivia, a devotion to Veronica Mars or medieval fairs, impassioned knowledge about something that tickles the brain is the key trait of geekiness. And that, we think, should be encouraged in any kid, thick-rimmed glasses or no. [From: Wired.com]



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keysofeight said 7:00AM on 8-11-2009
I am having a hard time, then, understanding what "geek grrrrl" IS. They are made fun of but trendy? They are unique among girls yet should be universal to girls? Why all the pushing of this as a trend? Because some of them used to feel hurt guys did not see them the same way as their favorite cheerleader? Oh really. I would have just ignored them. Now you fashion pushers go and mix the two in this misdefined concoction I will never understand, and now we cannot get away from the images on billboards and magazine covers and articles of people who are supposed to be the "nerd but hot" character (it is bloody everywhere.) Why insist it we all find it "hot?" Why, fashion pushers, do you raid every little corner of America and insist we think every little thing is "trendy" if you bombard us with it enough? Is there nowhere we can hide? Are we all supposed to feel guilty if we don't find geeks and nerds attractive? I don't wish any violence upon them and I respect their intellect but I do not like the trend pushing. Okay okay, they have *cough* "sex lives"--SPARE ME ALREADY.
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