Facebook Piles on the Guilt Before You Deactivate Your Account

While we have no plans of deactivating our own accounts, we hit up the page to see which of our friends appeared in the photos. Surprisingly, every photo was of us with a friend. It's likely the algorithm first chooses photos that have both you and your friends in them to deepen the emotional connection. Sneaky. We have to admit, tugging at our heart strings to keep us on the site is clever, and damned if we didn't feel a pang of guilt when their sad eyes stared accusingly at us for trying to leave. [From: Mashable]



















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Subscribe to commentsDrewJul 23rd 2009 3:18PM
thats horribly creepy if you think about it...thanks for posting!
Dudley HaasJul 27th 2009 4:36AM
Oh Boo Who Who -- I'm still broke up over quittin' Facebook. My wrinkle faced wife is all I have to look forward to now since I chopped off the B-9 mole on my 4-head and sprouted a few hairs on top my head...
PhilJul 27th 2009 5:20AM
janicesaves -- your post is low...fake critical comment of something that everyone who is a member enjoys doing...trying to grab attention so you can advertise your product. I hope everyone sees through your fake negativity.
Do what you enjoy! Who cares what others think of what you do, as long as it is what you enjoy doing and is not immoral!
HopeJul 23rd 2009 6:25PM
Somebody please explain to how people find the time to post messages on Facebook, My Space and all the other text messages they send out every day ?????? I run an online business and I can barely keep up with taking care of my customer's orders, inventory, shipping, purchasing, etc., etc. Something is wrong in this country when people have so much free time to do nothing when we facing such challenges in this country and in our personal lives.
traqairJul 26th 2009 8:10PM
perhaps you should advertise on facebook....:)
mkandmldJul 26th 2009 8:23PM
We can't sit around worrying ourselves to death of lifes problems - texting and emailing our friends is how we cope with whats going on. We shouldn't spend our life working and worrying - life is to be LIVED not frittered away by continually working and worrying.
gossdanJul 26th 2009 8:35PM
It's about connecting with friends and family... It's called "life". What you need to consider is "balance". Try it, you may just like it! Perhaps then you wouldn't be so grumpy. Take this as advice. Social networking is 'real' and 'healthy'. If nothing else, remember this: "work to live.... don't live to work".
jackJul 26th 2009 8:54PM
ohhh i'd love to comment, but aol doesn't like me, so they censor everything i say.... they hate different points of view. too bad... for someone who retired at 54, lives on the golf course in hawaii, and has travelled the world, you'd think they'd want to listen to a millionaires point of view
ToniJul 26th 2009 8:46PM
Tell me about it! My husband is obsessed w/ facebook. It drives me nuts. I clean, look after the kids, cook, etc... he sits on the couch and gets on facebook for hours!
DreolinJul 26th 2009 9:09PM
And yet, here you are finding time to comment...
Lisa WilliamsJul 26th 2009 9:17PM
Glad you are so busy! Take a break once in a while
jenJul 26th 2009 9:54PM
in response to people asking where people find the time to go on myspace and send messages its easy. you turn on computer. log into myspace. then you write a message and send it. you know like when you sit on the computer log into aol and write comments.
jeizu04Jul 26th 2009 10:31PM
The same way you are posting to this page!!
mattvns00Jul 26th 2009 11:11PM
do you need some help
kdmcam15Jul 26th 2009 11:56PM
Hope: I don't do a lot on facebook, but have run into a lot of classmates. You worry about your time, and I will worry about mine.
coojimJul 27th 2009 12:15AM
I totally agree.
jewelyJul 27th 2009 1:19AM
I enjoy the interaction I get to have with so many friends and relatives in my life that I would not otherwise have time to call. Since we post an ocassional status update and share photos, we can stay connected with each other even when we live in different states! I generally just check my FaceBook account when I get an email notifying me that a friend has posted a comment to me, so it really doesn't take up a lot of extra time.
RonJul 27th 2009 1:21AM
When your retired you got all the time in the world
CynJul 27th 2009 1:36AM
I'm hip, I know I'm working my ass off. I only get to be on Facebook once a week, and I have WAY too many messages and there mostly bullshit stuff. I just delete most of that. I think we need a vacation, you?
visionseer1Jul 27th 2009 1:54AM
same way you find time to post on here...