Reasons to Quit Facebook

Too many people, too much information...
At some point in its growth, Facebook's infrastructure became incapable of dealing with the incredible volume of incoming info. The problem is the signal-to-noise ratio, which is the difference between things you want to know about (like pictures of your new nephew) and things you don't (pictures of passed-out high school friends). Granted, it's not just Facebook that has the problem; information you care about gets lost every day as more and more users create their own content. We've seen it happen on Flickr, YouTube, and blogs (and most other user-generated-content sites). Some purists will argue that Facebook was lost as soon as it grew beyond colleges, but we think the recent redesign took the problem over the edge, since it does a pretty crappy job of compartmentalizing your updates and such into easily readable and filtered formats. We'll say it again, Facebook needs better filtering to help sort through all the noise.
So, are you ready to quit Facebook yet?
Facebook Crime and Punishment
Blackmail
Sending any personal info or incriminating pictures to someone on Facebook is a huge mistake for many reasons. One of the worst possible outcomes is getting blackmailed for money, sex, or, well, anything these sickos dream up. Really, whether they're using a fake profile or not, it's a horrible idea. Read up on the story of an 18-year-old who blackmailed 31 male classmates after he posed as a girl and asked for nude pictures. That's lesson enough.
Impostors
Sure, it can be harmless to impersonate a celeb online or create a fake profile for a movie character. But seriously, there's a definite line you shouldn't cross when pretending to be someone else and it can lead to dire consequences for you. Maybe it's not as extreme as the Moroccan man who was jailed for 43 days after creating a fake Facebook profile of a prince, but you never know. Just steer clear of it.
Self-Incrimination
Do we really have to explain this? Just look up the shoplifter who posed with her stolen merchandise, the many photos of drunk underage teens, and, most recently, the album featuring a couple who killed and ate an endangered iguana in the Bahamas.
Suicide
Social networking sites has been blamed for a lot of things, fairly and unfairly, but in our opinion, the worst offense has been their indirect involvement in suicides. Obviously, there are a lot of factors responsible in each case, but there does seem to be links between social networking and a rash of suicides, and obviously tehre's the case tragic of Megan Meier, who killed herself after a classmate's mom impersonated a teen boy and harassed her over Myspace.
Murder
We've reported on numerous incidents of people getting in trouble because of their online behavior. Now, people are becoming victims because of what they're doing on the Web too. In England, a man was convicted of murdering his estranged wife after she changed her relationship status to "single." So, be careful of who can see your profile and what you're doing, no matter how harmless it seems.
Nigerian Scammers
Oh, you thought this only happened via poorly worded emails, right? WRONG. Once people got wise to their old ways, these con men are turning to social networking sites for new targets. This time, they're hacking into people's accounts and impersonating them to ask for money, usually with some weird sob story. You can check out a transcript of one of these conversations here.
Cooperation
Even if the law isn't on a case, a victim, his friends, or empathetic strangers might be. Since it's easy to get word out for anything online, people are using blogs, forums, and social networking sites to help track down criminals. In one such case, a vehicle thief was tracked down by a bunch of anonymous car enthusiasts after the victim posted his story on a forum. In the end, they identified the guy through his Facebook profile.
Self-Incrimination
Do we really have to explain this? Just look up the shoplifter who posed with her stolen merchandise, the many photos of drunk underage teens, and, most recently, the album featuring a couple who killed and ate an endangered iguana in the Bahamas.





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Comments
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Subscribe to commentsashleyApr 16th 2009 2:22PM
this is just plane stupid myspace does the same things but you dont see anyone posting anything saying 15 reasons you should quit myspace. facebook is just one way to keep in touch with friends and family if you dont like them dont add them as for the apps figure out a way to block them
amyDec 11th 2009 7:33PM
I totally agree! I think this guy is just wanting something to complain about so he's picking on facebook. He needs to get a life! Facebook is not that bad, like he said, it's only been around 3 years so the designer/owner is still trying to figure out new things and ways to make it better. I love facebook, I personally think it's fun, there are some days that I get lost in it, and stay on it all day, ok, you caught me in a lie, more days than not, but I'm so involved in so many different apps on there I just can't help it. I'm disabled and am not able to do much, and I spend most of my days on the computer any way, so when I discovered FB, I just got really involved. So, Chad, if you dislike Facebook this much, just don't get back on it at all, and quit trying to discourage others from it. What's the problem, are you jealous that you couldn't invent something this big while you was just trying to take up some of your time while doing a project at Harvard?
CarolApr 16th 2009 2:28PM
Facebook is a useless waste of time and detrimental to the health of your computer, and your connection to reality. One or two good friends you can call(not text), when your down, celebrate with when your happy and experience REAL life with is worth more than a couple hundred facebook "friends".
udd1967May 4th 2009 1:45PM
I definitely agree, today I am signing off, it is a waste of time and you are right if you already have close friends why not call them? Also, it seems like a clutch too so many people who have lost their jobs,like me. I'm outta there.
rubytribeMay 27th 2009 3:27PM
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LISAMay 27th 2009 11:52PM
I agree with you carol 100%
JimApr 16th 2009 2:33PM
Prior to reading this article I had only a slight interest in maybe someday starting a facebook page but due to the amount of work related time I already spend on the computer and the issues described in this article I have resolved to never being part of this. Sounds like a big headache to me!
DreolinMay 30th 2009 11:39AM
Jim, don't let this stupid article put you off. I joined about 4 months ago and I am glad I did. I have been able to get in touch with people I haven't seen in years (people I wanted to see) and weren't able to find on Myspace. Also, this guy's friends must be idiots if he is having that many problems out of what they post or send to him. As for the gifts, I have never had to pay for a single gift. It must only be for certain ones you get charged. (Not that I send many.) And it really isn't as complicated as he makes it sound. I am also guessing he has not been very selective in choosing his "friends" and has a bunch of people friended that he doesn't care about which is why he is getting so much junk and so many updates. It seems like the more popular Facebook became the more people got snippy because they weren't in the "cool in-crowd" any more because everyone else had joined too, so now they have to do what they can to make sure everyone knows that they are still cool because they don't like Facebook anymore.
az dennizenApr 16th 2009 2:34PM
agreed with all of them... privacy settings are way to cryptic and seem intentionally obtuse... so you can't figure out how to separate your particular groups of intertwingled friends lists...
blah...
BillApr 16th 2009 2:37PM
I've quit facebook for all of these reasons. It was much better when it was simple.
sxygurl1431Dec 11th 2009 7:32PM
it still is simple, only the individual makes it complicated!
JudiJ50Apr 16th 2009 2:37PM
I'm thinking about giving up Facebook. I hate the version that they have now. I really don't want to see all that crap. At least on myspace, I can send a message private without anyone else seeing it. I know entirely to much about what my daughter does without reading the comments from her friends! She is an adult, but I still don't want to know what she did with her boyfried or whatever the case may be.
London WaterApr 16th 2009 3:32PM
Umm, u can send a private messge on facebook too. I'm pretty sure u can do anything on facebook that u can do on myspace and more. If u can read ur daughters business then thas' cuz' she wants u to be reading it.
ruready4disasterApr 17th 2009 7:26AM
If you read too much about something you can always click the little thing that says "Show less from this person" there are also ways to not see from certain friends.
Cindy LouMay 4th 2009 12:09PM
If you want it private use your email. If your daughter didnt want you to see it she would use her email. People shouldnt put personal information on.
LisaJun 12th 2009 3:26PM
Some kids are just stupid as to what they post online...pictures, mostly. Your daughter should realize you can see her comments, or she does and doesn't care what you see. She can block you from viewing her notes.
JessicaApr 16th 2009 2:42PM
On facebook there is this thing, not sure if you have heard of it. Its called the IGNORE button. Just ignore any stupid requests. Sheesh. Not that big a deal people.
nancyApr 17th 2009 10:06AM
I agree with Jessica. If you don't want it, Ignore it. Facebook is a great way to stay in touch with friends you don't see all that often or to reconnect with old friends and classmates. Just because FB provides all of that for you doesn't mean you have to partake. And, if it's eating up your life......that's YOUR fault, not Facebook's! Don't sweat the small stuff. And sometimes doing the inane stuff like the quizzes and the games can relieve even the most responsible of adults for a bit. Heck....in this economy it's FREE entertainment!!!!!!
MrsHubbyDDec 23rd 2009 12:24AM
I also agree with Jessica. You can also click on the "hide" icon. It is usually invisible until you glide your cursor over it. It then shows up, (to the right of the person's post), and you can either "hide" that person's "feed", (info they post), or you can just hide that particular game/info/score/application. When it comes to the smiles/hearts/drinks etc... that people send you, if you choose, "block this App", it will block not the actual person, but just the Application. After a while, you only get the info that you want. To send a message privately, just go to "send message", and it will go directly into their inbox. As long as no one else has access to their inbox, the message remains private....or just use regular email!!
BeefshalaApr 19th 2009 10:37PM
Rejoin the living!!!!
Every time I go out with my wife, we spend half the time taking pictures for her to put on her stupid wall so that people she hasn't spoken to in 12 years can see that we leave the house.