Online Dating Site Leads to Terrible Encounter and Forum Fighting

Girl messages guy, guy responds. They chat for a few weeks then decide to meet face to face. Girl is all excited, dresses up nice, and expects a great night. They meet at a café and right from the start, he's not into it. Guy barely speaks or makes eye contact, keeps checking his cell phone, and once dinner ends, pays for his half and leaves. Naturally, girl is upset.
But the story doesn't end there. Girl goes home, drinks a good amount of wine, then they start texting each other. Next thing they know, girl's over guy's place and they sleep together. Girl thinks it means they'll start dating. Guy stops returning calls and texts. Guy deletes profile then starts a new one that stipulates a full body picture before any responses.
So, she takes her story to the forum and he eventually finds out about it. His reasoning for acting the way he did? That she described herself as having an average body but was really 200 pounds, and he slept with her because he was in the mood from watching porn. Classy.
Naturally, the feud continued and the thread is up to 400 posts and counting. If you don't mind the nasty stuff being written there, check it out for yourself and see who you side. Once again, we remind you that social networking and online dating aren't exactly full of honest, kind people. [Source: OkCupid.com]
[Thanks, Adam]



Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
Denise said 9:25AM on 1-09-2009
I have used online dating sites in the past. However when I posted my profile and a picture, I also gave my exact height and weight.
I still had some really bad dates, which was the guy kept checking his watch, his phone, no eye contact etc. I knew right then and there that this was not the guy for me.
Did I go home and get drunk, NO.Did I blog on this person NO. Did I respond to any texts or IM's from the person, Yes however I told them that I belived that we were not a good match and that I wished them luck in their search.
I DID NOT go to their place and sleep with them. I chalked it all up to a bad date, and left it at that. I DID NOT email, IM, or call the guy.
You need to grow up, stop pounding down the alcohol, if a date goes badly leave, and do not harrass the guy.
As for the guy shame on you for just wanting to get laid, you could have and would have been better off by jerking off.
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wendy said 11:01AM on 1-09-2009
Exactly. Read the thread....or as much as I could tolerate. Hun, if the guy is not into you, move on. People are on their best behavior in the beginning. It's the BEST he can show you. Do you want a relationship like that..and worse?
As for the guy...I still don't get it that he can have sex with someone that he hated enough to dis so completely on the date. Is he really THAT desperate to get laid? What does that say about the dude, eh? Not too choice a catch, eh?
Ed. said 10:02AM on 1-09-2009
Dating via computer organizations is strickly " for the birds" What you see and who you speak to can be very false lading. I responded to a date with a certain organization and was terribly disappointed. The first gal was a georgous redheads ( picture)...but when meeting her at a given place the real her was extreemly older and ugly. As for the other two that I had a meeting also did not look like anything like the pixs. that were shown. That dating game is a farse and just takes your $$$$$ and tdhat's it.....the t/v commercial is nothing but lies. From now on if I meet someone it will be by my choosing.
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Brandon said 10:50AM on 1-09-2009
What angers me the most about this story is that a 200 lb girl can STILL get laid by a majority of guys out there who are horny. Makes me want to puke out of my ears and nose. Men are pathetic dogs and I'm ashamed to be associated with them. There should be Darwinism involved with dating....the fat ones who lack self-discipline should NOT get dates or sex and have to lose weight in order to get action. Literally, survival of the fittest.
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Z said 1:27PM on 1-09-2009
wow. can't believe a 200 lb. woman can get laid. how bloody sexist is that. can you believe a 200 lb. man can get laid? Have you ever seen a fit woman at 5'10" 200 lbs. I'm sure she's far hotter than many, many 200 lb. men. Despite what this couple did, it's sad that someone judges a person by their numbers -- let alone by looks alone. I like a hottie as much as the next one but to insinuate that only the fit should survive is damn near Nazi mentality.
MadMike said 10:17AM on 1-09-2009
If the girl was fat and put "About Average" or "Athletic and Toned" - They are liars and she deserved what she got.
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Bobby Jones said 2:08PM on 1-09-2009
The guy is an idiot for just wanting to get laid. The woman needs more self esteem. She set herself up. She should move on, lose a little weight and treat herself with respect. Lose weight...feel great!
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