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Also, nobody should read another's postal mail - except in the case where that task has been delegated, such as by a businessman to his seceretary, or by an invalid to his caretaker.

DAW]]>Nov 13th 2008 2:14PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/BUT IF YOU DONNOT LIVE IN SAME HOUSE..ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESSS. IF U LIVE TOGETHER THEN ITS STILL NO ONE BUSINESS HOPE YOUR NOT CHEATING!!!.]]>Nov 13th 2008 3:02PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 13th 2008 3:07PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/
If I had a wife, we'd share our mails (and everything else)

..on the other hand, it's really difficult to find a good woman :-(]]>Nov 13th 2008 6:36PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/suporting one concerns of foul play or other acts of concern to the person who wants peek into the e-mail of another person. caution once the act of opening ones e-mail takes place a discovery takes place where by a challange can take place thus justifing acts and actions. if in fact you come up blank,,, RUN!!!!!
This no way legal advise as I am not an attorney. However I am a private investigator...I have a litle expierance in matters like this>]]>Nov 13th 2008 3:09PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 13th 2008 3:13PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 13th 2008 4:09PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/
Secrets should exist, but only for national security and the safety of the public.]]>Nov 13th 2008 4:57PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 13th 2008 4:07PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 13th 2008 4:18PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 13th 2008 4:45PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 13th 2008 10:52PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 14th 2008 4:38AMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 13th 2008 4:50PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 18th 2008 9:13PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/
i had trust in them but it was the little things that made me paranoid. i never directly asked to check their email, phone log, etc. on one instance, i would ask to borrow my girl's phone because i forgot mine (borrow it to make a call in front of her), and she'd delete all logs and it just seemed suspicious to me, considering we dated for a year. well, i checked her mail/FB without her knowing, and i only proved my suspicions.

i checked the 2nd girl's phone ONLY because she started to get a lot of texts during the night (and she didn't usually; dated for 2 years). she went to party with some mutual friends at another school and "passed out naked on frat guy's couch." i think this would make any guy pissed/paranoid. situations like that make you paranoid and lead to FB/email checking.

if someone's actually cheating on you and still dating you, they're not going to tell you straight up (especially pathological liars), so you have to do your own detective work sometimes. it's kind of a protection method. i believe a majority of situations like this stem from insecurity but also from your partner acting inconspicuously and defensively.

these girls weren't exactly skanks by any means, but i've definitely refined my girlfriend evaluation process. my most recent relationship never had any trust issues. we shared laptops and whatever, and i had nothing to hide, so i could care less what she sees.

i guess the moral of my story is: 75% of the time someone is defensive or protective over this shit, it's because they have something to hide. the trust lies in the willingness of your significant other to do it even if you don't ask. the cheater partners usually say, "what? do you not trust me?" ... i hate that line.]]>Jan 29th 2009 1:47PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Mar 25th 2009 10:52AMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/The "why would she say THAT unless you are DOING IT WITH HER" is a question we men cannot answer. You can agree that you ARE guilty (so of course you have lost) or you can say you are not doing what you accused of doing - which means that you are a liar AND a cheater.
The people who say they have nothing to hide so it is OK probably voted for Bush and are happy to give up their right to privacy. ]]>Nov 13th 2008 4:53PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/]]>Nov 13th 2008 4:59PMhttp://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/http://www.switched.com/2008/11/13/have-you-checked-your-significant-others-e-mail/Nov 13th 2008 6:10PM