Five Online Dates You Should Avoid

So the Internet must be a great place to find true love, right? Not so fast. While online dating can be a great way to find someone new, dating sites are littered with scam artists, cheaters, and straight-up liars.
Now, this doesn't mean you should avoid online dating altogether -- just don't believe everything you see out there. In order to help sort out the winners from the losers, we've compiled a list of the top five types of online daters you should definitely avoid, along with some tips to help you save some heartache. Be careful out there, and good luck!
1. Liars
In a recent survey, it was found that most online profiles contain some sort of lie, whether it's the person's age or -- in some cases -- relationship status. White lies -- adding an inch to height or dropping a couple pounds -- are the most common and not a big deal to most people.Consider these facts according to the April 2007 issue of Proceedings of Computer/Human Interaction:
- About 52.6 percent of men lie about their height, as do 39 percent of women.
- Slightly more women lie about their weight (64.1 percent) than men (60.5 percent).
- When it comes to age, 24.3 percent men lie compared with 13.1 percent of women.
How to Avoid Them:
Ask questions. Though it may be listed on someone's profile, someone's age is fair game in the questions department, so feel free to ask your potential date how old (or young!) they are. You may find that 35 suddenly becomes 42. While you don't want to ask too many questions and scare the person away, it's perfectly fair to verify the big things: age, weight, height, and -- most of all -- whether or not that person is, in fact, single. Half the time, people lie on their profiles to get people interested -- nine times out of ten, someone will level with you about their stats once you show some real interest, since they know they might have a chance of meeting you in person.



Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
Shelly said 2:12AM on 8-08-2008
Con men like Phil Kassel use the internet and church to target trusting women. Go to www.dontdatehimgirl.com and research any man you meet. Any new great guy you meet is someone else ex - and possibly ex nightmare. Find out WHY their last relationship ended. If a man is not friends with their ex - there is a reason why. Avoid men like this.
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maggie said 1:35PM on 8-08-2008
This goes for women too. My brother hooked up with a women who used him because he made good money, when he tried to break up with her she used her 2 children to con him into staying. Next time she got pregnant, baby is her meal ticket, exact words,,,never telling him she had herpes. By law the nurse had to tell him when baby was born.
What a peice of crap she is,,,,,
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di said 3:26PM on 8-08-2008
Yeah. I commented on this article this morning when it had a date of September 2007, called AOL out on it (saying perhaps they need some new fresh material), and now the date has been changed to today's date.
Don't fall for these articles. Most of them are stupid common sense crap anyway. I'm not going to make the comment I did this morning because frankly I'm done with commenting. Y'all can comment away--have fun.
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Casey said 12:21AM on 8-10-2008
The author stated, "most marriages end in divorce. Its just a fact of life." Well, consider this a public service announcement. MOST SEXUALLY ACTIVE PEOPLE HAVE ONE OR MORE FORM OF SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE (STD) AND SOME CANNOT BE CURED i.e. herpes.
Don't believe it? Review the Center For Disease Control statistics... available free online.
Its just a fact of life.
Sorry to have to warn you.
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david clark said 11:56AM on 8-13-2008
the biggest lie is NIGERIA
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