Online Activity Used in Divorce Court

It turns out that as much as 75 percent of all divorce cases include some sort of electronic evidence: e-mail messages, instant message logs, even cell phone text messages. Increasingly, estranged lovers are looking to their partners' online activities to prove adultery, and courts are allowing the evidence in many cases.
A recent article from the New York Times told the tale of a man, suspecting his wife was cheating on him, who installed a program called "Pandora" on her machine. He was e-mailed screenshots of her computer every few minutes, screenshots that enlightened him of her adulterous activities. The program also captured her secret e-mail account passwords in which he found threads of tawdry conversations with the lover, who turned out to be a mutual friend from their children's private school.
Some argue that such spousal spying is an invasion of privacy. In fact, the husband in the story told by the New York Times was conflicted over his decision to spy on her. "If I were to tell you I have a pure ethical conscience over what I did, I'd be lying," he told The Times.
Either way, it turns out he could use the evidence in court since they shared the computer, a community property. Not all evidence found this way is admissible in court -- so if you plan on doing some e-espionage, consult a lawyer, first. Just don't do it via e-mail.
From The New York Times
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Comments
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Subscribe to commentsjump back jerrySep 24th 2007 1:11AM
It seems that alot of you 9 year old girls have a whole lot of misguided penis envy.You make me laugh out loud. Really though, I pity you.
craigSep 24th 2007 1:22AM
my ex was a lying cheat whore...i found emails and msgs..pictures she sent guys and some they sent her...past IM conversations...she thought she could hide it all but i found all of it!! you dont need any special software to catch them...just be really good at spying and obtain the email passwords...then you can get into their myspace, friendster etc... accounts! its easy once you have an email password! spying on a suspected cheater is good on my book...and ill help whoever needs help
corrinSep 24th 2007 5:40AM
thatgirlemily.blogspot.com
it was a publicity stunt for Court TV, one of the billboards was at 54 or 57th and 2nd in NYC.
SteveSep 24th 2007 3:22AM
I think denm was talking about the story under the picture of the billboard. Read the last few paragraphs.
By the way, denm, I agree with you 100%. I've been saying the same thing about cheating for years.
MelissaSep 24th 2007 3:30AM
I THINK IT IS A GREAT TOOL.
HIS WIFE SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN CHEATING.
IT SEEMS TO ME THAT MORE MARRIED PEOPLE ARE SLEEPING AROUND ON EACHOTHER THAN SINGLE PEOPLE.
MY SINGLE OR NOT MARRIED FRIENDS ARE FAITHFUL TO THE PEOPLE THEY ARE DATING.
YOU SHOULD SEE HOW MARRIED PEOPLE ACT WHEN THEY ARE AWAY FROM THEIR SPOUSES!!!
WHY BOTHER EVEN GETTING MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!
PEOPLE SHOULD ONLY MARRY THEIR SOULMATES DON'T SETLE, DONT MARRY FOR MONEY OR BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU SHOULD BE GETTING MARRIED AT THAT TIME IN YOUR LIFE!
ONLY MARRY BECAUSE THAT IS THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE WITH UNTIL DEATH TEARS YOU APART.
deeSep 24th 2007 5:34AM
I know many "couples" who have dodged the spyware bullet and left no "paper trail" for many years. Cheating couples can be a very creative bunch. Lots of times for selfish reasons, the cheated on spouse turns the other way for a long time (I speak from experience as the spouse who was cheated on for 2+ years and 7 years later he denies anything was going on even though they now live together)Some marriages shoildn't be, were never meant to be and if counselling solves nothing then both should cut the loss and move on!
TeriSep 24th 2007 5:49AM
Go ahead Em. I have more of a problem with this "my space" stuff. Someone I love dearly is in love with this site...her husband is NOT!!!He thinks this is cheating, hhmmmm, last time I looked cheating was with real people, you know, that you can touch.
BrianSep 24th 2007 9:46AM
Have to answer the comment about it takes two for a relationship to get to the point where someone cheats. That is a yes only if you say that it is one person's fault for being deceived by the other. Not all of us have a built in lie detector that lets us know that someone else saying "trust me" and "till death do us part, forsaking all others" and other such things is a lie. Seen way too many cases where what someone said and what they meant were so different that lie is the only word I can use.
debSep 24th 2007 7:35PM
The bill board message is a fake,but the idea of it i like.