http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/ Switched Comments for http://www.switched.com/media/feedlogo.gif http://www.switched.com en-us Copyright 2012 Weblogs, Inc. The contents of this feed are available for non-commercial use only. Blogsmith http://www.blogsmith.com/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/With this said, I bid you good health, joy, peace, and success on all points of the triangle. Love is the law, love under will...
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But also the fact remains that this man is dedicating himself to 14 hrs out of 24 hrs to another person who is NOT his wife. Whether you believe its adultery or not - it is plain old wrong!

His wife should recognize that the man is trying to escape and just let him!!!!!]]>Apr 9th 2008 10:17AMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/
To say its just an game is nothing but an excuse. If your heart is set on your online companion and not your spouse that happens to be in the same house, it's cheating.
]]>Aug 15th 2007 12:02PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/You could say that spending time with your spouse, listening to him or her, doing things for him or her, being there for him or her could be deemed as faithful. Now, paying attention to something else, especially a "play" spouse, in ones mind, like it said, humans cannot make "play" feelings for play situations. All our feelings are on the same plane.
So, if the game is meaning that one partner is no longer there for the other, and we do promise for better and for worse, then they are being unfaithful. They are cheating their wife of time, time with them.
It can be called adultery, it has not so much to do with going out so see someone. When se are so accustomed to perfect online images, real life gets incredibly boring.
This is something the game creators know, in order to have more and more people getting into them, to make money.
It is just like the addiction to sugars, real life is never so sweet.]]>Aug 15th 2007 12:14PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 15th 2007 12:50PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 2:24PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 2:16PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 2:17PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 2:19PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 2:20PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 2:19PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/
Oh, and what is her problem? She's a bigger fool for staying with him. Yeash!]]>Aug 16th 2007 2:25PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 2:27PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 2:23PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/]]>Aug 16th 2007 2:25PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/ ]]>Aug 16th 2007 2:25PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 2:27PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 5:43PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/Aug 16th 2007 2:28PMhttp://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/http://www.switched.com/2007/08/15/is-having-an-online-wife-adultery/
My father was in his late 70's when he began to play around on his computer building a second life in spite of 55 yrs of marriage. He interacted with multiple women younger than his own son(me) and created an online personna that gave women the image of him being a successful businessman when in fact he was retired and had too much time on his hands. This led to long distance phone calls and eventually out of town meetings which eventually caught up with him.

My parents divorced when my mother discovered that my father had arranged for a rendevous with one of his online women friends while she was visiting my wife and I in Florida.

In 2005 I received a call from my father's then live-in girlfriend telling me that I needed to travel to Tennessee and see my father who was in a local hospital after suffering from some health event. After arriving at the hospital I soon discovered that my father had slipped into a diabetic coma from which he never recovered. After consulting with several of his doctors I was advised that no further treatment could be made and that he needed to be removed from life support.

I was the only person with him as I watched him die and made the funeral arrangements including cremation. After his death I then faced the formidable challenge of dealing with his estate which has taken over 2 years to handle and is still not yet resolved but should be by year end.

Not only did my father commit "cyber adultery" but the initial game turned out to be an actual adulterous relationship. This choice made life difficult for not only my mother but for those left in the wake of his unbelievably poor and unwise choices.

In the end his choices cost him his life,his substance, his health and his possessions.

The old saying still holds true..." If you play you are gonna pay"

My question to all who read this is...IS IT WORTH GIVING UP EVERYTHING YOU HAVE JUST FOR THE SAKE OF PLAYING AROUND ? ]]>Aug 16th 2007 2:30PM